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Dec 05, 2013, 10:04 PM
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My girlfriend is storming around the apartment, a cross between extreme anger and utter despair. We are have been having relationship problems for a while, went to a relationship counselor for a while, waiting for a new one cause the old one left... Well I told her she can not go to my psychiatrist which I see for my bipolar. I know she will turn it into a session about our relationship and that is not going to help us any and not what I pay the guy for anyway. She is now saying that I am trying to keep secrets and that I am not telling them what is going on, accusing me of a great many things. Her responses are greatly disproportionate to what is going on. I have told as much, saying she just does not seem to be grounded, but then she goes off on me and says "your bipolar, of course you're going to think its me!". She is just.... I dont think I have ever seen this before. I need advice fast. I need to figure out how to fix this and calm her down
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Dec 06, 2013, 12:36 AM
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My husband and I had problems like this for a while. I am trying to be nosey, but do you drink or anything like that? Once we quit drinking things started to come together for us.
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Dec 06, 2013, 12:51 AM
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Maybe she just needs a day to think about this rationally. She has no place in your pdoc appointments. I havent had any experience in that particular arguement so I dont know how you can calm her down. I dont think you are the one in the wrong here.
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Dec 06, 2013, 01:07 AM
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Share more things with her. Obsession is not always good. So don't be obsessed to each other
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Dec 06, 2013, 01:21 AM
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Try to get her to take a nice warm shower. I would try to go to sleep for now.
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Dec 06, 2013, 05:04 AM
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I'm sorry your having to deal with this bs. It's a low blow to throw bipolar in your face like that. When my husband gets verbal I walk away until calmer heads prevail.
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