[liamellie]

My fiancé is bipolar, 3 yrs we been together & iv stuck by her always. She got out of a clinc and moved away without telling me.. I can't do this no more I don't think. As things get back to normal. She ups & moves away. A few weeks now she won't have a clue why she's where she is.. I'm a real loyal guy, but this is it now, I found out through my sister. She thinks I'm always going to be here, I have been but feels like I'm being taken the piss out of.. I love her & can handle her illness. She is all alone on a strange place because she's on a manic break. When she comes down shel act as if there's nothing wrong.. She loves me yeah but I don't get why she moves all around the place. She will end up stopping her meds & being taken to a place of safety where I WILL be informed of.. I'm loosing my mind, need help.. Thank you

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[r010159]

I have known a couple BPs to have done that. This is why I will not date a BP I (vs BP II) who has done this. I think many have as part of their manic phase.

As far as your concerned, I would keep in touch with someone who is also close to her, for they may hear from her before you do. Keep your lines of communication open for her.

[Hedwig3.0]

That is hard. I have been in a similar situation when I dated a woman who was bipolar. She went off her meds and I was pretty freaked out but her family was all blasé because she did it all of time. Ending that relationship was good for ME.

[liamellie]

I have done, we are engaged & it's doing my head in. She's on a high now.i know she's TOTALY loyal but i don't understand it. Shel be back when she hits a low..it's an occurring pattern. She was fine for the first year , them had a massive event change her life and her passed has all surfaced. She's running from herself if that makes sence.. 3 yrs we been together, were eachothers first love and it's hard, when she hurts I hurt.

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[liamellie]

She's BP2.. And I know shel end up on trouble & I can't help her

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[r010159]

If this is due to her mental illness, IMO this sounds more like BP1, not BP2.

[PaulHartC]

Could be BP2, especially if the move away was done out of a deep depression and not a mania. I'm BP2 and done similar myself. My fiancée did decide to end it when I ran off in a terrible fit of depression in college and she refused to see me again when I tried to come back.
I was mad for a long time, but looking back I understand why she did what she did. It helped me realize that I needed more help than I was getting and it reminds me every day that loved ones are not necessarily going to put up with everything.
I would say if you need to be done, then be done. She may try to come back, but honestly you may not do her any favors by trying to make it work over and over again at the expense of your own health.

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[liamellie]

Iv ended it today. She's been screaming at my sister & said it's been over for a while," that's all on her head" when she comes down again she will realise what's happened. This had happened to many times now & I'm making myself I'll.. Now she's in the world all alone. If this is what she wants, she's got it now. I can't take no more

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[liamellie]

Iv stood by her for 2 years through constant clinics ect,supported her, physicaly , emotionally & financially.. now she gets out and moves across the country.. Ip to a few days ago we were okay but she turns so fast & has no care about the repercussions."until it's to late" I would have died for that girl, I still love her tbh but I can't take anymore..

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