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Oct 16, 2014, 07:00 PM
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so my boyfriend visited me today but i feel so bad inside... like soooo bad. I feel like he can do a lot better without me, like he deserves someone better than me.
It has to do in part to something he told me today. About a guy who tried to touch his penis on the subway  ... weird i know, but it happened and i got so angry and now i ended up feeling like he can do better without me...I'd like to know... what you all do when something so stupid it's turned into something so BIG. I really feel depressed right now... so much!! we were playing monopoly wit my sister and i started feeling worse wen i noticed they were like playing against me, even though they were doing it for fun... is that stupid?  *when he told me about the guy on te subway i was about to throw glass of water all over is face... i was angry* So... what can i do? |
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Oct 16, 2014, 07:06 PM
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Take a step back, relax and communicate what you were thinking and going through. Our moods are not rational and if we try to make them rational we will probably get worse. I feel bad giving you advice when both my long term relationships failed, but that is what I think.
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Oct 16, 2014, 07:34 PM
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Oct 16, 2014, 08:45 PM
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Do you warn your boyfriend when your sensitive?
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Oct 17, 2014, 12:50 PM
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i'm so angry today... for no reason. hate myself today. |
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Oct 17, 2014, 05:25 PM
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How can you make this completely normal when it will be not normal for him to experience. I guess it may be a good idea at the beginning of the relationship what you allow yourself to expose to him. But looking for compassion is not such a bad thing, particularly when it can enhance the relationship. FWIW
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Oct 17, 2014, 06:11 PM
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I always warn my husband whether it be sensitive, or agitated. No one wants to be caught of guard for unintentionally hurting someone or unintentionally angering someone.
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Oct 18, 2014, 01:20 AM
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I agree with MM, I let my gf know when I'm in a mood whether it be anger or depression. It's just easier for her to handle if she already knows I'm in one of those moods.
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