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Jul 22, 2015, 04:17 PM
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Feeling very sad and uneasy today. Feeling sad and uneasy but mostly sad--very, very sad.
My husband asked me yesterday if I was lying about IOP. "Is it really helping? Are you lying to me? You're still in your old habits. This house is ridiculous and you are constantly asleep." He said this in a demeaning tone as if to suggest I am wasting his precious time and money. Lying? Really? I explained that it is helping me, teaching me, distracting me and that even just having the time for myself is relieving if only for a few hours. But, I went on, I am still quite depressed. I felt a little bitter by the accusation. Anyone else have a spouse that has unjustifiably accused you of lying about your emotions or psych related issues? It stings.
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Jul 22, 2015, 04:32 PM
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My husband gets upset when I'm in a mood episode because I don't shut up about the most ridiculous things. He's told me on a few occasions that if I didn't get help, he'd leave. He says these things in anger. I say things in anger too.
I'm in a mild depressed state. My house is a mess compared to my stable self. My husband does not clean up either, so who is he to complain. I'm glad he doesn't complain because I know it would make me worse. I'm sorry your husband is "on you" about this  My husband has never accused me of lying. This would upset me too. I'm sorry this happened and I hope you and your husband can work it out. Hugs to you. |
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Jul 22, 2015, 05:10 PM
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Ughghgh that sucks that he would even say that ((cash))!!!!!
I'm sorry you had to hear that  It's pretty insensitive ... |
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