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Old Nov 06, 2015, 10:56 PM
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I don't know if this is a possible *trigger so just in case

I'm so sad, I feel as if I'm deciding my marriage is possibly over,
and it's not just because of his wanting kids and I don't

I feel like I'm not going to get any better and I don't even know if I want to get better. I'm just done in I don't want to have to take care of me and a marriage and a job and a house and pets, and work to get better, and try to be healthy etc.

I do love him though but love isn't always enough!
I don't know what to do, I've asked him to let me take some time off work
And the answer is NO he figures we can't afford it and I'll get sicker again because I've been off work before and it wasn't good for me and i always want to miss work in the winter (Canadian winter) and that's all true but I also want to work on getting better without the stress of working

I don't know if this makes sense but it sure hurts
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Old Nov 06, 2015, 11:59 PM
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I don't have any answers but I just want to let you know I'm here thinking about and listening to you.
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Old Nov 07, 2015, 12:20 AM
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I don't have any answers but I just want to let you know I'm here thinking about and listening to you.
thank you so much!
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Old Nov 07, 2015, 04:00 AM
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Geez, I have no words of wisdom either, you're in a really shytti situation and I feel for you.

Just wanted to send you some s and let you know that you've been heard.

Maybe talk to your hubby again, and discuss the amount of time that seems the most appropriate. I mean you certainly sound like you need a timeout, you just have to make sure its not a lengthy one...
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Old Nov 07, 2015, 09:13 AM
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Sorry to hear that you couldn't reach an agreement with your husband.
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Old Nov 08, 2015, 11:12 PM
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Geez, I have no words of wisdom either, you're in a really shytti situation and I feel for you.

Just wanted to send you some s and let you know that you've been heard.

Maybe talk to your hubby again, and discuss the amount of time that seems the most appropriate. I mean you certainly sound like you need a timeout, you just have to make sure its not a lengthy one...
Thank you for the advice!
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Old Nov 08, 2015, 11:13 PM
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Sorry to hear that you couldn't reach an agreement with your husband.
Thanks Fharraige
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