[C2015]

When should I tell my boyfriend I'm bipolar? We've been together less than a month.

[tanto]

I've found hiding things can be really bad. I'd let him know, so at least he's not surprised and confused when symptoms present suddenly. And if he reacts poorly to it, at least it's early enough in the relationship that a breakup wouldn't be so bad.

[Kuras]

Don't wait terribly long on that. Obviously leading things off with "I'm mentally ill" doesn't seem like a great idea most of the time. But once you've gotten to know each other reasonably well, you do want to be open with him. Otherwise it may seem like you were trying to keep things from him, especially if he found out some other way than you telling him. If he has a genuine desire to be with you as an individual, it'll be ok.

[vjdragonfly]

If this feels like a relationship that might go somewhere I would have a sit down with him now. And I agree with Tanto, if worse come to worse, a break-up now would be much easier now before you develop intense feelings for the guy. You never know, your honesty and being able to trust him enough to share this may make you all closer.

[Unrigged64072835]

If it looks like you're getting serious you should definitely tell. My now-husband and I did discuss our issues when we were still dating but before he moved in with me.

[C2015]

I did tell him earlier today. He said would have eventually figured it out. I do think he's glad he found out from me. I told him I didn't want him to find out some other way.

[C2015]

Even after telling him I have bipolar he was fine with it. He's all ready making future plans with me included.

[Unrigged64072835]

That's great! Hope this works out for both of you.

[chowdercity]

Good to hear that! I have had boyfriends pretty much jump out of bed and run for the door. When you find someone who accepts you for all of you, you've found a good one.

Best of luck!