[TaraE]

Hi - Ill keep it as short as I can. Been in an on off relationship with a guy with diagnosed Bipolar. I can go from the most beautiful girl in the world to the next day being complete trash with 'hair like straw' etc etc the list goes on. At the moment we are not together but still keep facebook contact now and again.

Recently I had the results of my Masters course whereby I had a distinction. I posted this on Facebook to let all of my friends know. Within seconds I had a tirade of abuse from him how he had to find out about my results on 'f@cking facebook' and why didnt I text him to let me know. We have not been a couple for 9 months. So I replied and said that I didnt think Id done anything wrong, I was just excited and put a post on FB - bearing in mind we have not been bf and gf since beginning of Dec 2015. He then ranted that I had time to respond to m friends well wishing.

I just would like suggestions on why he does this - everytime I have a small achievement he turns nasty and then says things like he was thinking of taking me out to dinner but he couldnt as he was still absolutely seething that I had not text him - its a few days after the kick off and he's still fuming he says. He also said some random stuff about wanting to be the one who bought my text books and give me money to survive on while at school. But hes always said to me hw every previous gf has just taken from him and besides, I wouldnt accept him buying me books when we'e not in a relationship.

My question is is he just trying to hurt me for some reason, is it the illness or does he just like ringing me down?

Welcome back. This post sounds similar to yesterday's? You decided it was best to move on rather than analyze things? Or am I mistaken?

We are unable to analyze his behavior as he's not here and we aren't professionals. However, we can support you.

Yesterday you said you broke up nine months ago...but this post says there's an off and on relationship. I'm sorry we can't help more. Perhaps couples counseling?