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Sep 18, 2016, 07:37 PM
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So here i go.....
I started my vacation this past Thursday. My family plus the parental in laws went to the Outer Banks. Its in NC on the coast. Only a 3 hr drive from raleigh where i live. Celebrate my birthday day which was yesterday, oh happy birthday to me. That whole different can of worms. Lft outer banks and we are now in Myrtle Beach SC. We went for dinner at a place i cant stand at all. I used to work for the company. Didnt seem to care. I think they did it just to get me mad anf laugh at me. I have to give in to the factor that i will get yelled if i do or day anything else. The whole time it seems i have been taking a back seat to everything. Didnt get a real happy birthday from anyone here. it was more like guess i have to. So one please tell me i am wrong in this feeling. |
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#2
Sep 18, 2016, 07:58 PM
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Your birthday sounds disappointing. I am sorry they did not listen to you or you felt they would do this to laugh at you. This is horrible. I feel sorry for you
(((((HUGS))))) bizi
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Sep 18, 2016, 08:07 PM
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I'm sorry you had a bad birthday. It's hard to have others not acknowledge what is important to us.
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#4
Sep 19, 2016, 12:24 AM
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Happy (belated) birthday, Incubus!
 I wish someone you were with had put you and your wishes first on your birthday, and that you were with people who didn't get their kicks out of getting a rise out of you. It should never be tolerated for someone to yell at you for making a different choice when the choice they're making is expressly to make you upset. Sorry you're dealing with that... I assume, since you were with your parent-in-laws, that your spouse was there, too. Do you get any support from that corner? If you can, I would start there. |
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Sep 19, 2016, 06:16 AM
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I'm sorry your birthday wasn't a good one. Your family could have taken your needs into consideration, this one important day of the year
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#6
Sep 19, 2016, 06:41 AM
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Sorry to hear that your birthday didn't go well. It was sad to hear about how you've been mistreated by your spouse and parent-in-laws.
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Sep 19, 2016, 06:08 PM
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Thank you all.
Still got til Saturday before we leave to go home. I am losing it. I cant stand it. I need to get away from everyone, i am playing golf tomorrow hopefully the rain stops and course dries up. I try go to on the balcony but doesnt help. Cant go anywhere alone |
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#8
Sep 19, 2016, 06:10 PM
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I guess you could go hang out in your bath room?
sorry it is so hard for you. ((((HUGS))))) bizi
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Sep 19, 2016, 06:42 PM
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I could but they would kinda mad about it. Just stinks that all. Just cant get away and destress from the whole thing
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Sep 19, 2016, 08:24 PM
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What's the worst thing that happens if they get mad? They make you feel bad? They're already making you feel bad. You deserve the chance to get away and take some time to get reset. No one should have to spend that much time without any personal agency or self-determination to take care of their own needs.
There's nothing wrong with saying you need to go out and pick up a newspaper, a gallon of milk, a pint of ice cream, some matches, or whatever. Then just take 3 hours to get it done. Or just say you're going to get some air, and take a 2-hour walk. Or say you have really awful gas and would prefer not to stink up the place you're staying... really any excuse to get out would be OK at this point. |
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Sep 19, 2016, 08:34 PM
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This is a real kick in the pants. The Eagles are playing right now and i cant even watch the games cause they wantes to play cards. I am getting so mad right now
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