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Dec 18, 2016, 05:03 PM
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My husband is Passive/aggressive, with touches of some other issues mixed in. It makes life unbearable. His parenting is nonexistant. he says horrible things to the children. Any insight/suggestions?
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 Icare dixit, Skeezyks
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Dec 19, 2016, 12:24 PM
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It's hard to offer input when you provide limited information about your situation. Is your husband seeking help or making a genuine effort to improve? How old are your children?
In my experience, someone can not change unless he genuinely wants to put in the work. Your children do not deserve to be in a situation where horrible things are said to them. I would encourage you to take whatever steps are necessary to let your kids know that the behavior is unacceptable. The school may be able to point you in the right direction.
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Dec 19, 2016, 12:47 PM
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Does he realise he has a problem? Can you talk about it?
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Dec 19, 2016, 01:59 PM
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I agree. Not enough information.
I'd leave a man that was a bad father. I had 2 bad fathers and it affected me. I wouldn't put a child thru that. Also my husband is kind and considerate. Nothing like either dad.
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