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Old Aug 31, 2017, 08:58 AM
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So I caught my husband sexting again...(sigh). After we went through this a couple of weeks ago, after I told him how much this hurts me, how disrespectful it is, how I consider it a form of cheating, how it is destroying our relationship...He promised to block their numbers and we agreed I could check his phone at any time. I asked him to hand it over yesterday ( I just had a feeling) and sure enough, he was sexting with two women. As usual, he deflected and tried to blame me for it. Been dealing with this for 5 years of a 7 year marriage. I'm done.
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Old Aug 31, 2017, 11:25 AM
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I'm sorry you're having this experience. You mentioned in another post that you're financially dependent on him so I guess you can't move out. I don't have any advice but I sympathize. Sending big hugs.
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Old Aug 31, 2017, 11:45 AM
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I'm so sorry, this would be a deal breaker for me. Sending big hugs
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Old Aug 31, 2017, 04:16 PM
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Thank you both for the support and the validation.
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Old Aug 31, 2017, 09:13 PM
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Im sorry that you are dealing with this mess. I hope you can find a way out of this marriage , You deserve so much more
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Old Aug 31, 2017, 10:00 PM
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I'm so sorry. That's so painful. No matter what you decide, just remember that you deserve much better treatment than that.
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Old Sep 01, 2017, 08:03 PM
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Hope you find a way to get out of this toxic relationship.
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Old Sep 01, 2017, 10:10 PM
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What's wrong with him?! You need to get out of this relationship. He obviously has a problem. That behavior would be a deal breaker for me. I'm sorry you're dealing with this.
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