Husband yelled at me today, feeling really depressed

Today my husband and i were doing laundry together. I decided to go take a shower to get ready to pick our son up from school. The washer was done so i asked if he could throw the clothes in the dryer. Our dryer won't turn on unless you lift it up slightly and adjust it. As i was in the shower he came in and told me he couldn't get it to work. I told him i would do it when i got out. He then yelled that he had asked me to do the laundry and he was angry that it wouldn't turn on. He went back to the laundry room and started punching the dryer and cussing me out. I got out of the shower, was horrified at at all the dents, and tried to get it to work. Nothing. So he starts yelling at me again about it and how i'm lazy, selfish, and how mad he is that i lost my job. He told me to quit my job many times so i got really upset and started crying. He then kept yelling at me, i was crying so i'm not sure what insults he was yelling. But he made me look on our local selling sites for dryers, told me to fix the one we have, or go to the laundry mat. I eventually went and moved our dryer around until i got it to turn on. Then he yelled at me for getting it to work when he couldn't. He also yelled at me for not being able to work, and accused me of quitting because he has a good job and i'm too lazy to work. I didn't quit, i got fired. I'm disabled and receive social security disability. I try really hard not to be lazy. It hurts so bad that he has such a bad opinion of me when all i try to do is make him and our son happy. I've been hiding in our bedroom crying on the bed for hours. He has not said sorry or came to check up on me. I'm so upset and depressed.

I’m sorry this happened to you. You don’t deserve to be treated like that. Does he treat you like this often? Can you talk to him about it when you’re both up to it? What about couple’s counseling? I’m here if you need to talk. ((((Hugs)))).

He had in the past but it was when he was drinking heavily. He stopped drinking and we did some counseling together. This last year and a half has been really good. We just went on a trip to Denver for our 10th anniversary, and all he did was complain about everything. His family on his dad's side is mad at me for letting a sister-in-law on his mom's side watch our son. They even said really nasty things about me to my husband. It's nothing new, his dad's side hates me because they think i'm bad for him. Everytime they talk bad about me to him, his attitude towards me is so mean.

That’s good it’s been good for the past year and a half. Maybe this is a one off. As far as his father’s family goes, his first loyalty should go to you. Maybe you could talk to him about this when the time is right. I do understand more than you know. Sending big hugs.

I can relate - it sounds exactly like something my husband would do. I hate when he yells.

((hugs)) I hope it gets better