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Old Apr 25, 2018, 06:56 AM
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If you could choose to be fat and smart, or skinny and dumb? What would you choose?
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Old Apr 25, 2018, 07:23 AM
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I like to think I'm both smart and skinny, because I can learn things rapidly, and my BMI is in the "normal" range.
But as for this proposed exercise, I'd rather be fat and smart. Exercise and diet can usually change body anyway.
As for my being smart, I'm not sure, based on past choices.
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Old Apr 25, 2018, 07:28 AM
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I've been both. Skinny and dumb, for sure.
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Old Apr 25, 2018, 07:30 AM
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Exercise and diet can usually change body anyway.
That's a good point. You can fix the body, but can't fix the intelligence.

I'm skinny right now, but I'd rather be fat and smart considering I could always lose weight.
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Old Apr 25, 2018, 07:31 AM
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The comedian Ron White has a bit about "you can't fix stupid. Stupid is forever."
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Old Apr 25, 2018, 07:35 AM
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The comedian Ron White has a bit about "you can't fix stupid. Stupid is forever."
I love Ron White. He’s hilarious.

To address original poster. I think I would refrain from choosing. I’ve been fat, I’ve been thin, I’ve been really smart and really stupid. I just chose to love myself and be however I want to be.
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Old Apr 25, 2018, 07:51 AM
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Skinny and stupid. In my experience stupid people don't know they are stupid and ignorance is bliss. 😂
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Old Apr 25, 2018, 08:23 AM
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Skinny and stupid. In my experience stupid people don't know they are stupid and ignorance is bliss. Fat or skinny?
Yup! And the world is kind to the thin. At least kinder than they are to the fat.
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Old Apr 25, 2018, 08:40 AM
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If they were the only choices, I'd choose fat and intelligent. There are far more advantages to that choice, in my opinion. Besides, my husband has loved me at all weights I've been. He would probably have never married me if I was stupid. Not that stupid people aren't lovable or interesting. It's just a personal choice.
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Old Apr 25, 2018, 09:31 AM
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fat, I guess

because I'd hate to be seen as dumb
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Old Apr 25, 2018, 10:11 AM
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I too have been both. My meds have tended to make me both put on weight and drop a few IQ points. I am down in weight now but the matter of my occasionally appearing dumb is a very real problem.
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Old Apr 25, 2018, 10:22 AM
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I'm with Shazeric....ive been all
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I am fat and smart. No choice there.
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Old Apr 25, 2018, 02:22 PM
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I am fat and smart. No choice there.
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Old Apr 25, 2018, 02:28 PM
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I’m kinda right down the middle I think , moments here and there are clearer or muddled.
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Old Apr 25, 2018, 03:05 PM
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Depends on how skinny and how dumb.
How about fat and dumb?.
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Old Apr 25, 2018, 03:40 PM
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Well......it depends on your definition of "fat" and "stupid".

There's the "can't get off the couch" fat and there's the "more to love" fat.

And there's the "I jumped off the roof into my pool but crashed into the poolhouse instead" stupid and the "1 + 1 = 3" stupid.
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Old Apr 25, 2018, 04:44 PM
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I'm already fat so I might as well be smart.
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Old Apr 25, 2018, 06:15 PM
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Skinny and dumb for sure.
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Old Apr 25, 2018, 11:51 PM
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I'm fat AND dumb. Thank you medications.
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How about a compromise -- half skinny and smart, half fat and dumb?


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Old Apr 26, 2018, 12:11 AM
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Hmmmm
I feel like i am already skinny and dumb
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Old Apr 26, 2018, 12:15 AM
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Fat and smart, personally I value intelligence greatly, I worked hard for it and the feeling of accomplishment for it is bigger than words, I've tried being stupid, worst desision of my life. So I just said screw it, and did me. Best. Desision. Ever. I think Ron white said it best," you can't fix stupid. Stupid is forever." Pretty spot on if you ask me
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Old Apr 26, 2018, 12:45 AM
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Fat and smart, that’s how I roll.

I wouldn’t know what to do with my life if I didn’t have a weight battle. From 2003 to 2015, diet was all I ever thought about all my waking hours. Seriously obsessed with low carb Paleo.

Getting diagnosed bipolar helped to break the obsession. I guess APs and lithium help with obsessive thinking.

But why the hell do the pills have to make you fatter??? The ones that don’t, don’t work for me <sigh>
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Old Apr 27, 2018, 03:42 PM
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I'm fat AND dumb. Thank you medications.
I'm gonna be brutally honest, just like you did. You have a way above average mind.......... You're welcome.
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