for " not being stable enough"

I just found out and it actually quite hurts- I mean I totally understand why, many of the members on the group are aiming to get better and to live their lives and to move forward, me.. I'm more of the thinking " **** life, it's sucky"

but it still hurts

horrible end to an otherwise perfect evening

[Unrigged64072835]

That really sucks...

At least that's a good thing about PC; you won't have that happen here.

Originally Posted by Fharraige

That really sucks...

At least that's a good thing about PC; you won't have that happen here.

I agree.

that's one good thing about this site

I love it here

[marvin_pa]

I'm not sure that I'd very much miss being part of a group that demonstrates that kind of empathy...

[Blueberrybook]

That sucks. You would think stability shouldn’t be an issue in a mental health group (who doesn’t have issues with stability in a group like that?) unless you’re telling people to harm themselves or something. That is just ridiculous. I had mods at one mental health forum discounting everything I said as in my imagine or no way could that happen, and everyone would immediately jump on the bandwagon to agree with them, and all my posts stopped being answered which hurt my feelings. I felt like it invalidated all my thoughts and points of view. I finally just left the forum and am glad I found this one. I am happy the bipolar forum is so active, but I wish the eating disorder forum were more active here especially since the ED forum I used to use has slowed down a lot.

[Wild Coyote]

I am sorry this has happened to you.


WC

Originally Posted by cln1812

That sucks. You would think stability shouldn’t be an issue in a mental health group (who doesn’t have issues with stability in a group like that?) unless you’re telling people to harm themselves or something. That is just ridiculous. I had mods at one mental health forum discounting everything I said as in my imagine or no way could that happen, and everyone would immediately jump on the bandwagon to agree with them, and all my posts stopped being answered which hurt my feelings. I felt like it invalidated all my thoughts and points of view. I finally just left the forum and am glad I found this one. I am happy the bipolar forum is so active, but I wish the eating disorder forum were more active here especially since the ED forum I used to use has slowed down a lot.

I'm sorry this happened to you.

reminds me of the time I joined an emily autumn forum and posted my introduction telling the forum I was bipolar

got lots of replies.. no, you're not, no you can't be

and it's just because my real name is emily, and emily herself (EA) has bipolar.

stupid indeed

They might've found your comments triggering, hence they removed you. I don't think they should've done that, though, since that's not a very "supportive" thing to do. However, that's my best guess.

You're better off without them anyway. You deserve better. I'm sorry you had to go through this, though. I can only imagine how much that hurts.

They should've talked to you first before removing you. I always believe that many issues can be resolved just by talking it out, but they didn't give you that chance. That's not fair and that's a cruel thing to do.

That's BS. Not everyone finds encouragement and insight through programmed phrases and rhetoric. We need the most help when we are not stable. It's their loss in the end. You deserve a group that is more understanding than that. I'm sorry.

[yellow_fleurs]

I'm sorry We are still here to support you no matter what!

[Tucson]

I was on a very popular mental health site. I wrote posts on how I went about medicating myself by purchasing my meds from Mexico. I am talking about meds like MS, AD, and an AP, for instance. As I suspected would happen, a person reported me to the mod. All the mod would need to do is remind me of the terms of use for that website. At the very least give me a warning.

Apparently, she saw me as an undesireable. So instead of sending me a message about what I was doing wrong, she came on to the chat session on the forum. Out of nowhere she singled me out and started to be really mean to me. Then she tried her best to push my buttons. I did not kmow what was happening to me. After several minutes of this, it worked. I started telling her that what she was saying was not making sense to me. Well, there was one rule they had that if I even talked back to a mod, I would be immediately banned. This is what she was trying to accomplish. Its the only way I can make sense of what happened. So I was banned. I discovered that this was a permanent ban. This hurt me very much. I had friends there. It took me some time to get over it.

PS One day came where I started to think what I was doing with meds was a bad idea. I stopped and found a pdoc to do this for me. All he did was have me tell him how I wanted my meds to be changed, which then he did by giving me new scripts.