I just feel like I'm not wanted here. Am I ?

You are wanted here

Hi rose1985. Of course you're wanted here. What makes you feel otherwise?

Sometimes I write long posts and wonder if anyone has even read them. Not all posts are acknowledged, but they are contributions.

[Blueberrybook]

Of course you are wanted

[Wild Coyote]

Hey there, Rose!

You are wanted here!

Can you share why you are wondering?


WC

Wha?! You are a staple here! I, too, wonder why you would feel not wanted.

[Tucson]

Why would you think of such a thing? Of course you are wanted here.

You are wanted here. I just sent you a friend request. I'm a bit of a weirdo, but you get used to it.

[Nammu]

Oh rose, yes you are wanted.

[Moose72]

Definitely wanted! We love each other here. Please stay and post to your heart's desire.

[katydid777]

I am in agreement with everyone else! You are very much wanted here at PC! Please stay with us, and keep up your posting.

[*Laurie*]

I'm curious about why you think you are not being accepted here? There must be a reason. Do you want to explain a bit further?

[luvyrself]

Originally Posted by rose1985

I just feel like I'm not wanted here. Am I ?

—ok girl, what’s got you down? We’re with you, always!

[Unrigged64072835]

You're wanted here hon! Keep posting!

[Fuzzybear]

You are wanted here

Thanks everyone. that makes me feel better.

The reason i said that.is bc i posted one day about some traumas I had been through and didn't get many replies. So I had them take down the thread. It was hard for me to open up like that. But maybe ppl didn't know how to respond. ...?

[~Christina]

Of course you are welcome.

Why would you think this?

[Movingon69]

i'm new but I adore everyone here, including you.

I often feel that people don't really want me around ( not just here but anywhere). I'm so thankful for the people who were persistent and wouldn't leave me along until I accepted their friendship. Sometimes I still wonder why they want to be my friend.

Sometimes I don't respond because I'm so new to the dx and am not real sure I have substantive advice or similar experiences to share.

I, too, post things that don't get much response. In those cases I begin to think I'm overreacting or people think I don't have it as bad as they do and shouldn't be complaining. I'm trying to view those posts as cathartic rather than other people's views of me.

I'm sorry you feel that way.

[Wild Coyote]

Sometimes, the forum has less activity and it can take 1-3 days to accumulate responses. This has nothing to do with the poster.


WC

[yellow_fleurs]

I am sorry you felt this way. It must be hard to open up about that and feel like no one cared due to the lack of response. It certainly looks like you are wanted here.

Originally Posted by Wild Coyote

Sometimes, the forum has less activity and it can take 1-3 days to accumulate responses. This has nothing to do with the poster.


WC

Yeah, I think I'm feeling more paranoid lately.

[Tucson]

Leave the thread up next time. Bump it once or twice. If you post more here at PC, everyone will become familiar with you and your forum name. This can help.

Wanted dead or alive. Preferably Alive. Maybe you're like me and read into things too much?

By the way peanuts are on special at the grocery today. This would of been great news if I actually enjoyed chewing the things.

"Mary Me"

[bizi]

Originally Posted by 2ISAB

Wanted dead or alive. Preferably Alive. Maybe you're like me and read into things too much?

By the way peanuts are on special at the grocery today. This would of been great news if I actually enjoyed chewing the things.

"Mary Me"

just what are you trying to say?????

[Candy1955]

I often feel the exact same way, Rose. I think if you get into a cliquey forum or one where one person has taken ownership you can easily wind up feeling like you have the recess time playground cootie bugs, i.e. no one responds to you. It is hurtful but oh so human.
Yes you are wanted here.