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Old Sep 27, 2018, 01:32 PM
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Don’t know how this is going to work out. We don’t have money for two residences. So I don’t know how we will separate. Plus not sure about the kids.

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Old Sep 27, 2018, 01:46 PM
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Hate is a very strong word .. I’m not a fan of it . I’m not sure what to suggest but I’m sending hugs (if ok)
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Old Sep 27, 2018, 02:14 PM
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Can you guys go to couples counselling to figure out all the divorce stuff?
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Old Sep 27, 2018, 05:35 PM
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Yeah, hate is a strong word...does your wife feel the marriage is beyond saving as well? Or does she feel it came out of nowhere? If you both feel it is too late for marriage counseling, you want to be mindful of what you say that your kids may overhear. It doesn’t do any kid any good to hear one parent hates the other.
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Old Sep 27, 2018, 05:39 PM
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This is tough. I hope you can figure out something about the kids.

I doubt you really hate your wife. That must have been hurtful for her to here. Although she probably said hurtful things to you too.
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Old Sep 27, 2018, 07:29 PM
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Sorry to hear this. Don't make any rash decisions if you're in the midst of an episode (sorry, haven't been following your posts).

I agree with others - have you tried couples counselling?
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