[Fuzzybear]

I think this maybe belongs in a different forum. But I’ve “posted too much” there - my censor, not anyone else’s.

What someone else said really resonated with me. These last few days I’ve been feeling worse and worse, and more and more grrrrr..

I have more thoughts of su

And more thoughts of eating mean people

I politely told two people (in “real” life) exactly what they were doing that was hurting me. I don’t think my request was unreasonable. And they are continuing doing that behaviour. Most of the abusers throughout most of my life have constantly and intentionally driven as close to the “line” as they can.... hurting me over and over again... and often trying to label me as the “abusers”!

I’m too “old” and “sick” to put up with any more playground games, anywhere, including from “doctors” irl.

I am not a horrible person,

And I am not ANYONES punching bag

But I’ve got a short fuse now, I will not put up with crap. Eff all bullies and abusers

(Not about anyone on pc)

[Wild Coyote]

Originally Posted by Fuzzybear

I think this maybe belongs in a different forum. But I’ve “posted too much” there - my censor, not anyone else’s.

What someone else said really resonated with me. These last few days I’ve been feeling worse and worse, and more and more grrrrr..

I have more thoughts of su

And more thoughts of eating mean people

I politely told two people (in “real” life) exactly what they were doing that was hurting me. I don’t think my request was unreasonable. And they are continuing doing that behaviour. Most of the abusers throughout most of my life have constantly and intentionally driven as close to the “line” as they can.... hurting me over and over again... and often trying to label me as the “abusers”!

I’m too “old” and “sick” to put up with any more playground games, anywhere, including from “doctors” irl.

I am not a horrible person,

And I am not ANYONES punching bag

But I’ve got a short fuse now, I will not put up with crap. Eff all bullies and abusers

(Not about anyone on pc)

Hey there, Fuzzy
I am sorry the 2 people could not validate your request(s).

Maybe it's helpful to have a short fuse? Maybe others will learn to show you respect?

I wish you Inner Peace, Fuzzy!

WC

[~Christina]

Sometimes exploding is the healthiest way to handle people who won’t respect boundaries !

What’s the worse that can happen they still do whatever they do ?

Exploding might be the trick.

I know you struggle a lot with people around you. Start snapping back when needed its empowering to do so.

Leave your claws out and use them. It’s up to ourselves who we allow to harm us emotionally and physically

Good luck

[Unrigged64072835]

Don't put up with crap. Crap belongs in the crapper, not in your hands.

If someone isn't treating you properly, let them have it. Life is too short to have to live with abuse.