Home Menu

Menu



advertisement
Reply
Thread Tools Display Modes
clydeblack
Member
 
clydeblack's Avatar
 
Member Since Mar 2018
Location: France
Posts: 227
6
249 hugs
given
Grin Nov 30, 2018 at 11:43 AM
  #1
I got over some of my rituals. I tend to get really obsessive and hadn't realized that I had been forcing myself to eat the same exact thing every day out of fear that something would happen.

So, I know it's not a big deal but I just had a bagel for breakfast! I bought some chicken too (I'm afraid of eating meat at home) which I will try and cook tomorrow.

Have you made any small but significant milestones lately?
clydeblack is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Hugs from:
Anonymous46341, Fairy102, katydid777, MickeyCheeky, Nammu, Tryingtobehappy5
 
Thanks for this!
MickeyCheeky, Nammu, SvanThor

advertisement
Merlin
Magnate
 
Merlin's Avatar
 
Member Since May 2004
Location: Alberta, Canada
Posts: 2,316
20
548 hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Default Nov 30, 2018 at 11:49 AM
  #2
I stopped drinking Coca-cola.

__________________
It is said an Eastern monarch once charged his wise men to invent him a sentence, to be ever in view, and which should be true and appropriate in all times and situations. They presented him the words: "And this, too, shall pass away." How much it expresses! How chastening in the hour of pride! How consoling in the depths of affliction!
---"Address before the Wisconsin State Agricultural Society". Abraham Lincoln Online. Milwaukee, Wisconsin. September 30, 1859.
Merlin is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Hugs from:
Anonymous46341, clydeblack, katydid777, MickeyCheeky, Nammu
 
Thanks for this!
BipolaRNurse, MickeyCheeky
clydeblack
Member
 
clydeblack's Avatar
 
Member Since Mar 2018
Location: France
Posts: 227
6
249 hugs
given
Default Nov 30, 2018 at 12:28 PM
  #3
Quote:
Originally Posted by Merlin View Post
I stopped drinking Coca-cola.
Neat! Apparently it can ruin your stomach lining if you drink it long term.
clydeblack is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Hugs from:
Anonymous46341, katydid777, MickeyCheeky, Wild Coyote
 
Thanks for this!
MickeyCheeky, Wild Coyote
Anonymous45023
Guest
 
Posts: n/a
Default Nov 30, 2018 at 12:37 PM
  #4
I have the same thing for breakfast every day too(!), but don't consider it one of my "something bad will happen if I don't" compulsions. Doing things in certain repetition of number is a different story...

Hmm, small but significant.... Joined a couple of meet up groups and have gone to a couple meet ups. I've not gone places with people in that way in a very long time (many years).
  Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Hugs from:
Anonymous40258, Anonymous46341, clydeblack, katydid777, MickeyCheeky, Wild Coyote
 
Thanks for this!
clydeblack, MickeyCheeky, Wild Coyote
Anonymous46341
Guest
 
Posts: n/a
Default Nov 30, 2018 at 01:07 PM
  #5
I got past some agoraphobia and mild phobias, but that was a few years ago. As for lately, nothing significant. I guess some of my old assertiveness has returned.

Congratulations to you and the others for your accomplishments! These are great steps.
  Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Hugs from:
clydeblack, katydid777, MickeyCheeky, Wild Coyote
 
Thanks for this!
clydeblack, MickeyCheeky, Wild Coyote
jaysmotogp
Member
 
Member Since Nov 2018
Location: SoCal
Posts: 113
6
Default Nov 30, 2018 at 04:41 PM
  #6
Good to hear clydeblack.
I used to eat a cheese sandwich every morning for about six years for the same reason.
I stopped that a awhile back, but just now realized that i've been eating pb&j sandwiches every morning for about a year instead
jaysmotogp is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Hugs from:
clydeblack, katydid777, MickeyCheeky
 
Thanks for this!
clydeblack, MickeyCheeky
katydid777
Magnate
 
katydid777's Avatar
 
Member Since Nov 2016
Location: georgia
Posts: 2,137
7
10.2k hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Default Nov 30, 2018 at 04:52 PM
  #7
I am bad about this. I will eat stuff like yogert, cottage cheese, veggy juice, toast, among other low cal things.
katydid777 is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Hugs from:
clydeblack, MickeyCheeky
 
Thanks for this!
clydeblack, MickeyCheeky
Anonymous40258
Guest
 
Posts: n/a
Default Nov 30, 2018 at 05:01 PM
  #8
I am beginning to realize why I stopped going to therapy. My last two therapist were working with me on exposure therapy and although I am continuously exposing myself to my fears and phobias, they don't go away completely. I have managed to adjust a few of my compulsive thoughts and actions into healthier ones. And I've learned different ways of overcoming panic attacks when they happen.
  Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Hugs from:
clydeblack, MickeyCheeky
 
Thanks for this!
clydeblack, MickeyCheeky
Nammu
Crone
 
Nammu's Avatar
 
Member Since May 2010
Location: Some where between my inner mind and the solar system.
Posts: 73,830 (SuperPoster!)
14
57k hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Default Nov 30, 2018 at 05:34 PM
  #9
I cut my hair.

__________________
Nammu
…Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. …...
Desiderata Max Ehrmann



Nammu is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Hugs from:
clydeblack, MickeyCheeky
 
Thanks for this!
clydeblack, MickeyCheeky
Victoria'smom
Legendary
 
Victoria'smom's Avatar
 
Member Since Apr 2012
Location: Earth
Posts: 15,298 (SuperPoster!)
12
5,617 hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Default Nov 30, 2018 at 05:42 PM
  #10
I ate an egg with cheese and a piece of bread for brunch.

__________________
Dx:
Me- SzA
Husband- Bipolar 1
Daughter- mood disorder+


Comfortable broken and happy

"So I don't know why I'm tongue tied At the wrong time when I need this."- P!nk
My blog
Victoria'smom is online now   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Hugs from:
clydeblack, MickeyCheeky
 
Thanks for this!
clydeblack, MickeyCheeky
Blueberrybook
Grand Magnate
 
Blueberrybook's Avatar
 
Member Since Oct 2017
Location: La Porte, TX
Posts: 3,890
7
447 hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Default Nov 30, 2018 at 05:45 PM
  #11
That is awesome! I had this ritual (back from the severe days of my ED) when I would pick the chocolate chips out of chocolate chip bagels and eat them one by one. I think it took me 10 years to stop doing that, helped by the fact I no longer live 5 minutes from a bagel/coffee shop.

I have one ritual I wish I could break but don't think it's possible at this point. Again, when my ED was bad, I started clenching and grinding my teeth while asleep. Even with proper nutrition, I still clench (though the grinding stopped). Apparently, that can be caused by lack of nutrients. I have broken so many teeth that way. I still clench super hard overnight. I have a nightguard and can usually keep it in 5 days a week or so (used to pull it out in my sleep nightly).

I used to bite my nails a lot and realized at some point I had just stopped doing it, but it was nothing I had to make an effort to quit.

I do like to eat soup for lunch when H is at work and my daughter at school, different varieties though and usually with different fruit or veggies or yogurt. Not completely the same. But I would eat a sandwich for dinner every night if I could. I hate cooking. No option with a family though.

__________________
Bipolar 1, PTSD, anorexia, panic disorder, ADHD

Seroquel, Cymbalta, propanolol, buspirone, Trazodone, gabapentin, lamotrigine, hydroxyzine,

There's a crack in everything. That is how the light gets in.
--Leonard Cohen
Blueberrybook is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Hugs from:
clydeblack, MickeyCheeky
 
Thanks for this!
clydeblack, MickeyCheeky
Blueberrybook
Grand Magnate
 
Blueberrybook's Avatar
 
Member Since Oct 2017
Location: La Porte, TX
Posts: 3,890
7
447 hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Default Nov 30, 2018 at 05:46 PM
  #12
Quote:
Originally Posted by Merlin View Post
I stopped drinking Coca-cola.
In my case it would be Diet Coke, but yes, I SO wish I could do this! How wonderful!

__________________
Bipolar 1, PTSD, anorexia, panic disorder, ADHD

Seroquel, Cymbalta, propanolol, buspirone, Trazodone, gabapentin, lamotrigine, hydroxyzine,

There's a crack in everything. That is how the light gets in.
--Leonard Cohen
Blueberrybook is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Hugs from:
clydeblack, MickeyCheeky
 
Thanks for this!
clydeblack, MickeyCheeky
SvanThor
Member
 
SvanThor's Avatar
 
Member Since Dec 2015
Location: Ohio, USA
Posts: 432
8
57 hugs
given
Default Nov 30, 2018 at 06:05 PM
  #13
I've cut out a lot of bad things from my diet and haven't been binging.
SvanThor is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Hugs from:
clydeblack, MickeyCheeky
 
Thanks for this!
clydeblack, MickeyCheeky
BipolaRNurse
Neurodivergent
 
BipolaRNurse's Avatar
 
Member Since Mar 2012
Location: Western US
Posts: 4,831
12
3,864 hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Default Dec 01, 2018 at 01:00 AM
  #14
I cleaned the kitchen AND took a shower today.

__________________
DX: Bipolar 1
Anxiety
Tardive dyskinesia
Mild cognitive impairment

RX:
Celexa 20 mg
Gabapentin 1200 mg
Geodon 40 mg AM, 60 mg PM
Klonopin 0.5 mg PRN
Lamictal 500 mg
Levothyroxine 125 mcg (rx'd for depression)
Trazodone 150 mg
Zyprexa 7.5 mg

Please come visit me @ http://bpnurse.com
BipolaRNurse is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Hugs from:
clydeblack, MickeyCheeky, Nammu
 
Thanks for this!
clydeblack
Tryingtobehappy5
Member
 
Tryingtobehappy5's Avatar
 
Member Since Sep 2017
Location: Canada
Posts: 443
7
776 hugs
given
Default Dec 01, 2018 at 01:31 AM
  #15
I emailed a few schools for more information on their programs. Anything that has anything to do with goals or the future at all is hard for me so even a couple emails was a big step. Nice post and congrulations! The size of the victory doesnt matter all progress is important
Tryingtobehappy5 is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Hugs from:
MickeyCheeky
 
Thanks for this!
MickeyCheeky
clydeblack
Member
 
clydeblack's Avatar
 
Member Since Mar 2018
Location: France
Posts: 227
6
249 hugs
given
Default Dec 01, 2018 at 12:58 PM
  #16
Thanks for the answers, guys!
clydeblack is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Hugs from:
MickeyCheeky
MickeyCheeky
Legendary
 
MickeyCheeky's Avatar
 
Member Since Jun 2016
Location: Italy
Posts: 11,817 (SuperPoster!)
8
38.4k hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Default Dec 01, 2018 at 01:06 PM
  #17
Congratulations! Hugs to everyone, you're all very strong
MickeyCheeky is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
clydeblack
Member
 
clydeblack's Avatar
 
Member Since Mar 2018
Location: France
Posts: 227
6
249 hugs
given
Default Dec 01, 2018 at 01:24 PM
  #18
Quote:
Originally Posted by Blueberrybook View Post
That is awesome! I had this ritual (back from the severe days of my ED) when I would pick the chocolate chips out of chocolate chip bagels and eat them one by one. I think it took me 10 years to stop doing that, helped by the fact I no longer live 5 minutes from a bagel/coffee shop.

I have one ritual I wish I could break but don't think it's possible at this point. Again, when my ED was bad, I started clenching and grinding my teeth while asleep. Even with proper nutrition, I still clench (though the grinding stopped). Apparently, that can be caused by lack of nutrients. I have broken so many teeth that way. I still clench super hard overnight. I have a nightguard and can usually keep it in 5 days a week or so (used to pull it out in my sleep nightly).

I used to bite my nails a lot and realized at some point I had just stopped doing it, but it was nothing I had to make an effort to quit.

I do like to eat soup for lunch when H is at work and my daughter at school, different varieties though and usually with different fruit or veggies or yogurt. Not completely the same. But I would eat a sandwich for dinner every night if I could. I hate cooking. No option with a family though.
Oh that sounds awful. I have had so many tooth problems in the past and can understand that it probably hurts. It's good that you were able to break the chocolate chip cycle! It must be difficult getting over an ED.

Yeah, cooking can feel like a big task...guess that's why most people love cereal?
clydeblack is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
clydeblack
Member
 
clydeblack's Avatar
 
Member Since Mar 2018
Location: France
Posts: 227
6
249 hugs
given
Default Dec 01, 2018 at 01:25 PM
  #19
Quote:
Originally Posted by Tryingtobehappy5 View Post
I emailed a few schools for more information on their programs. Anything that has anything to do with goals or the future at all is hard for me so even a couple emails was a big step. Nice post and congrulations! The size of the victory doesnt matter all progress is important
Thanks, and congratulations for you!
clydeblack is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Reply
attentionThis is an old thread. You probably should not post your reply to it, as the original poster is unlikely to see it.




All times are GMT -5. The time now is 09:29 PM.
Powered by vBulletin® — Copyright © 2000 - 2024, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.



 

My Support Forums

My Support Forums is the online community that was originally begun as the Psych Central Forums in 2001. It now runs as an independent self-help support group community for mental health, personality, and psychological issues and is overseen by a group of dedicated, caring volunteers from around the world.

 

Helplines and Lifelines

The material on this site is for informational purposes only, and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis or treatment provided by a qualified health care provider.

Always consult your doctor or mental health professional before trying anything you read here.