[FriendlyJoe]

I logged on Facebook to see my friends posts and messages. I went to my friend's page and found myself defriended and blocked. And we've been friends for 23 years. I was so angry and devastated that I worked on my project car for 4.5 hours straight forgetting about dinner. No goodbye or anything, how cold. She was seeing a new bf and probably told her to defriend me. Theres a lot of low confidence guys out there, this hasn't been the first time a guy had their gf or wife defriend me. If someone told me to end my friendships I'd tell them to f off and don't tell me what to do you're not my boss.

I'm totally lost and alone now.

Hi FriendlyJoe. If that friend defriended you, then I would blame your friend, not her boyfriend, unless she's a teenager or a total wimp. I'm sorry this has happened to you. Perhaps she'll contact you after a bit. Or can you contact her? Do you have any idea what might have caused your friend to defriend you?

[pirilin]

You simply had the wrong GF.
Be thankful.

Cheers.

I'm sorry this happened to you, FriendlyJoe. Hopefully it'll sort out in time. I hate that you feel lost and alone from this. Remember though, never alone. We're always here for you.

[cashart10]

I am so sorry this happened to you. Losing a friendship, especially one you’ve had for so long, is always tough. We are here for you when you need us!

[Sunflower123]

I’m sorry this happened to you. And without knowing why or closure at that. You have us so you’re not alone.

I'm sorry to hear that happened. I've been on the receiving end of that situation myself, and I know it sucks-- especially like Jennifer said, no closure in knowing why makes it that much more difficult. I hope you find a way to make peace with it. Stay strong! You're definitely not alone.

[yellow_fleurs]

That must be so hurtful, especially after 23 years. I am really sorry. Have you ever had problems before? What about a mutual friend, do you have one you can speak to and ask if they are aware of a problem between you?

[~Christina]

A friend of mine for 22 years blocked me on Facebook out of the blue.

So I emailed and he admitted his new wife made him block all female friends. My response was “ it’s a shame she could worry about some one that lives over a thousand miles away and happily married”” and Shame on you for throwing away a damn good friendship !

It’s sad but shyt happens. I’m sorry I know it hurts.

[FriendlyJoe]

Originally Posted by ~Christina

A friend of mine for 22 years blocked me on Facebook out of the blue.

So I emailed and he admitted his new wife made him block all female friends. My response was “ it’s a shame she could worry about some one that lives over a thousand miles away and happily married”” and Shame on you for throwing away a damn good friendship !

It’s sad but shyt happens. I’m sorry I know it hurts.

Sadly people love to control others and force people to drop their friends they don't want them to have. It really sucks for the friends that are thrown away.

Thanks for everyones reply. I'm really trying to keep it together and keep my anger under control. I've spent the last 2 days practically in my garage working on various projects. I keep several projects around to keep my manic mode busy for situations like this.