[Fuzzybear]

Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

It's not possible for a bear to be ''perfect'' and to avoid all misunderstandings or miscommunications in an imperfect world

But I had to be ''perfect'' when I was a cub (and feed them … )

Especially with all the abusers around who like to try to feed on fuzzy things


Things can get complicated quite easily

My mood is ……

I do not need to call a pdoc.

hugs and respect to all


(not about anyone here)

[fern46]

As far as my experience goes that is an impossible expectation of anyone. All we can do is carry a pure intent and potentially smooth over misunderstandings if we deem it important to do so.

Abuse is rampant and cyclical. The best we can do is break the cycle and if you're willing, offer forgiveness. We deserve to walk without the void created by what they took from us. I got myself a shovel and I'm filling in the hole.

It is quite complicated. You can feel any way you need to about it. You can approach it any way you like. No judgment. Thank you for sharing today.

Hugs and respect to you Fuzzy.

[Fuzzybear]

Originally Posted by fern46

As far as my experience goes that is an impossible expectation of anyone. All we can do is carry a pure intent and potentially smooth over misunderstandings if we deem it important to do so.

Abuse is rampant and cyclical. The best we can do is break the cycle and if you're willing, offer forgiveness. We deserve to walk without the void created by what they took from us. I got myself a shovel and I'm filling in the hole.

It is quite complicated. You can feel any way you need to about it. You can approach it any way you like. No judgment. Thank you for sharing today.

Hugs and respect to you Fuzzy.

''we deserve to walk without the void created by what they took from us''

I agree, all we can do is carry a pure intent...

Abusers can and will taint or try to taint pure intent

I like to try to smooth over misunderstandings..

But there are some (not here) who thrive on miscommunications and manipulations... and projections. grrr

Well said, thanks for posting fern.

hugs and respect to you

[Fuzzybear]

''I've been stumbling through some dark places..''

''a small grey spider spinning in the dark...

I've been waiting in the weeds''

[fern46]

Originally Posted by Fuzzybear

''we deserve to walk without the void created by what they took from us''

I agree, all we can do is carry a pure intent...

Abusers can and will taint or try to taint pure intent

I like to try to smooth over misunderstandings..

But there are some (not here) who thrive on miscommunications and manipulations... and projections. grrr

Well said, thanks for posting fern.

hugs and respect to you

They will try to taint intent, but that's the beauty of intent. It can be held true even if the creation made by it isn't perfect or if someone uses it in a way we didn't intend. Intent is born within and lives within. They cannot take it from you. It is your truth. You can allow them to abuse your mind and your heart so that your intent is confused, but ultimately that is within your power to change.

I try not to worry about what others thive on. I'm enough to take care of on my own

[Fuzzybear]

Originally Posted by fern46

They will try to taint intent, but that's the beauty of intent. It can be held true even if the creation made by it isn't perfect or if someone uses it in a way we didn't intend. Intent is born within and lives within. They cannot take it from you. It is your truth. You can allow them to abuse your mind and your heart so that your intent is confused, but ultimately that is within your power to change.

I try not to worry about what others thive on. I'm enough to take care of on my own

Good post, thanks Fern

[Wild Coyote]

Great thread!!!

[Fuzzybear]

Originally Posted by Wild Coyote

Great thread!!!