Home Menu

Menu


Reply
Thread Tools Display Modes
  #1  
Old Oct 03, 2020, 07:52 PM
bpcyclist's Avatar
bpcyclist bpcyclist is offline
Legendary
 
Member Since: Sep 2019
Location: Portland
Posts: 12,681
So. K. Read all the helpful suggestions from you fine humans. I am going to do this. Feeling better, Sarcosine, I think. Anyway. Gonna be brave and put a note to myself on the wall. Starting with one thing. Dishes. Hoping the prompt will lovingly encourage me to initiate action. Daily. We will see. I will truthfully report. Hopeful. I want to do better. I think it might make me feel better about myself.

Hugs!
__________________
When I was a kid, my parents moved a lot, but I always found them--Rodney Dangerfield
Hugs from:
*Beth*, Fuzzybear, Soupe du jour
Thanks for this!
*Beth*

advertisement
  #2  
Old Oct 03, 2020, 10:07 PM
Crazy Hitch's Avatar
Crazy Hitch Crazy Hitch is online now
ɘvlovƎ
 
Member Since: Nov 2013
Location: Australia
Posts: 28,226
Sounds awesome bp! Hang in there
Hugs from:
bpcyclist, Fuzzybear
Thanks for this!
bpcyclist
  #3  
Old Oct 04, 2020, 03:03 AM
*Beth* *Beth* is offline
catches the flowers
 
Member Since: Jul 2019
Location: Downtown Vibes, California
Posts: 15,701
Accomplishing those chores promises to make you feel better about yourself.
__________________




Hugs from:
bpcyclist, Fuzzybear
Thanks for this!
bpcyclist
  #4  
Old Oct 04, 2020, 03:32 AM
bpcyclist's Avatar
bpcyclist bpcyclist is offline
Legendary
 
Member Since: Sep 2019
Location: Portland
Posts: 12,681
Thanks, guys.
__________________
When I was a kid, my parents moved a lot, but I always found them--Rodney Dangerfield
Hugs from:
*Beth*, Fuzzybear
Thanks for this!
*Beth*
  #5  
Old Oct 04, 2020, 10:35 AM
Fuzzybear's Avatar
Fuzzybear Fuzzybear is offline
Wisest Elder Ever
 
Member Since: Nov 2002
Location: Cave.
Posts: 96,637
Sounds good! Much love to you
__________________
Hugs from:
bpcyclist
Thanks for this!
bpcyclist
  #6  
Old Oct 05, 2020, 07:39 AM
bpcyclist's Avatar
bpcyclist bpcyclist is offline
Legendary
 
Member Since: Sep 2019
Location: Portland
Posts: 12,681
I did all dishes. Put my note up. It helped.
__________________
When I was a kid, my parents moved a lot, but I always found them--Rodney Dangerfield
Hugs from:
*Beth*, fern46, Fuzzybear
Thanks for this!
*Beth*, Blue_Bird, Fuzzybear
  #7  
Old Oct 05, 2020, 07:44 AM
Fuzzybear's Avatar
Fuzzybear Fuzzybear is offline
Wisest Elder Ever
 
Member Since: Nov 2002
Location: Cave.
Posts: 96,637
Quote:
Originally Posted by bpcyclist View Post
I did all dishes. Put my note up. It helped.
__________________
Hugs from:
bpcyclist
Thanks for this!
bpcyclist
  #8  
Old Oct 05, 2020, 02:55 PM
fern46 fern46 is offline
Grand Magnate
 
Member Since: Mar 2019
Location: USA
Posts: 3,021
Quote:
Originally Posted by bpcyclist View Post
I did all dishes. Put my note up. It helped.
Good job. Staying busy really does help. I wore myself out today. We have company coming tomorrow and I deep cleaned everything including my dog
Hugs from:
bpcyclist, Fuzzybear
Thanks for this!
bpcyclist
  #9  
Old Oct 15, 2020, 11:28 AM
bpcyclist's Avatar
bpcyclist bpcyclist is offline
Legendary
 
Member Since: Sep 2019
Location: Portland
Posts: 12,681
So, little accountability update. Really trying to stay on top of it. Pretty good. Proud, a little.

Next thing to add is floors. Albert is so messy. Need to vacuum every day and do not. Starting that today!! Yay!!

Baby steps. Thank you all for helping me.
Attached Images
File Type: jpg 20201014_193906_HDR.jpg (171.0 KB, 6 views)
__________________
When I was a kid, my parents moved a lot, but I always found them--Rodney Dangerfield
Hugs from:
fern46, Fuzzybear
Thanks for this!
fern46
  #10  
Old Oct 15, 2020, 11:29 AM
Fuzzybear's Avatar
Fuzzybear Fuzzybear is offline
Wisest Elder Ever
 
Member Since: Nov 2002
Location: Cave.
Posts: 96,637
Quote:
Originally Posted by bpcyclist View Post
So, little accountability update. Really trying to stay on top of it. Pretty good. Proud, a little.

Next thing to add is floors. Albert is so messy. Need to vacuum every day and do not. Starting that today!! Yay!!

Baby steps. Thank you all for helping me.
Great job! I need to work on this. I do not often feel ''proud'' of me (a friend has the same issue.... I guess its the same issue as not liking myself grrrrrr)

I really do think it is linked to the PUS (deceit and neglect when I was a tiny cub)
__________________
Hugs from:
bpcyclist
Thanks for this!
bpcyclist
  #11  
Old Oct 15, 2020, 04:39 PM
Fuzzybear's Avatar
Fuzzybear Fuzzybear is offline
Wisest Elder Ever
 
Member Since: Nov 2002
Location: Cave.
Posts: 96,637
You are my peeps...

I reject a few elsewhere who are sssssssssssssoooooo sensitive to the Opinions of others that they repeatedly JUDGE innocent others and are out of touch with their true selves (NOT anyone here) (like my parental units, been there, done that

got the TEE SHIRT

and THROWN IT AWAY

I'm free
__________________
Hugs from:
*Beth*, bizi, bpcyclist, Bugtussel, fern46
Thanks for this!
*Beth*, bpcyclist
  #12  
Old Oct 15, 2020, 06:32 PM
fern46 fern46 is offline
Grand Magnate
 
Member Since: Mar 2019
Location: USA
Posts: 3,021
Quote:
Originally Posted by bpcyclist View Post
So, little accountability update. Really trying to stay on top of it. Pretty good. Proud, a little.

Next thing to add is floors. Albert is so messy. Need to vacuum every day and do not. Starting that today!! Yay!!

Baby steps. Thank you all for helping me.
Nice job! It becomes a habit quickly and then you can use it as a tool to sense when things are going sideways. I am always impressed with your drive to keep moving forward.
Hugs from:
bizi, bpcyclist, Fuzzybear
Thanks for this!
*Beth*, bpcyclist
  #13  
Old Oct 15, 2020, 06:34 PM
Fuzzybear's Avatar
Fuzzybear Fuzzybear is offline
Wisest Elder Ever
 
Member Since: Nov 2002
Location: Cave.
Posts: 96,637
I don't like snakes
__________________
Hugs from:
bizi, bpcyclist
Thanks for this!
bpcyclist
  #14  
Old Oct 15, 2020, 06:55 PM
bpcyclist's Avatar
bpcyclist bpcyclist is offline
Legendary
 
Member Since: Sep 2019
Location: Portland
Posts: 12,681
Quote:
Originally Posted by fern46 View Post
Nice job! It becomes a habit quickly and then you can use it as a tool to sense when things are going sideways. I am always impressed with your drive to keep moving forward.
Thank you so much for all the support.
__________________
When I was a kid, my parents moved a lot, but I always found them--Rodney Dangerfield
Hugs from:
bizi, fern46, Fuzzybear
Thanks for this!
fern46
  #15  
Old Oct 16, 2020, 02:53 PM
Fuzzybear's Avatar
Fuzzybear Fuzzybear is offline
Wisest Elder Ever
 
Member Since: Nov 2002
Location: Cave.
Posts: 96,637
have you heard from fern today? I hope she is ok

I am ''ok''

how are you today buddy?
__________________
Hugs from:
bizi, bpcyclist
Thanks for this!
bpcyclist
  #16  
Old Oct 16, 2020, 02:57 PM
Fuzzybear's Avatar
Fuzzybear Fuzzybear is offline
Wisest Elder Ever
 
Member Since: Nov 2002
Location: Cave.
Posts: 96,637
in our CAVE all is safe and warm
or i would like to think so
i hope you will be safe too
__________________
Hugs from:
bizi
  #17  
Old Oct 16, 2020, 03:37 PM
Fuzzybear's Avatar
Fuzzybear Fuzzybear is offline
Wisest Elder Ever
 
Member Since: Nov 2002
Location: Cave.
Posts: 96,637
none of my peeps have written to me today (in PM)

have i been a ''bad paws''
__________________
Hugs from:
bizi, bpcyclist
Thanks for this!
bpcyclist
  #18  
Old Oct 16, 2020, 03:38 PM
Fuzzybear's Avatar
Fuzzybear Fuzzybear is offline
Wisest Elder Ever
 
Member Since: Nov 2002
Location: Cave.
Posts: 96,637
also my box is almost full again
a sense of deja vu
__________________
Hugs from:
bizi, bpcyclist
Thanks for this!
bpcyclist
  #19  
Old Oct 16, 2020, 03:51 PM
bpcyclist's Avatar
bpcyclist bpcyclist is offline
Legendary
 
Member Since: Sep 2019
Location: Portland
Posts: 12,681
Quote:
Originally Posted by Fuzzybear View Post
none of my peeps have written to me today (in PM)

have i been a ''bad paws''
I wrote you four times, I thought?
__________________
When I was a kid, my parents moved a lot, but I always found them--Rodney Dangerfield
Hugs from:
bizi, Fuzzybear
Thanks for this!
Fuzzybear
  #20  
Old Oct 16, 2020, 04:30 PM
Fuzzybear's Avatar
Fuzzybear Fuzzybear is offline
Wisest Elder Ever
 
Member Since: Nov 2002
Location: Cave.
Posts: 96,637
Quote:
Originally Posted by bpcyclist View Post
I wrote you four times, I thought?
Thanks, yes I remember now (sorry) - i thought that was yesterday but i could easily be wrong.

and I replied to your last PM

I was thinking of fern and another friend from a different part of pc (I hope they are ok)

i also wrote to 2 others from here but i think they logged out before they received my message (yesterday)

__________________
Hugs from:
bizi
  #21  
Old Oct 17, 2020, 07:00 AM
bpcyclist's Avatar
bpcyclist bpcyclist is offline
Legendary
 
Member Since: Sep 2019
Location: Portland
Posts: 12,681
Quote:
Originally Posted by Fuzzybear View Post
have you heard from fern today? I hope she is ok

I am ''ok''

how are you today buddy?
??

Why wouldn't she be? Did I miss a post?
__________________
When I was a kid, my parents moved a lot, but I always found them--Rodney Dangerfield
Hugs from:
Fuzzybear
  #22  
Old Oct 17, 2020, 07:46 AM
fern46 fern46 is offline
Grand Magnate
 
Member Since: Mar 2019
Location: USA
Posts: 3,021
Quote:
Originally Posted by bpcyclist View Post
??

Why wouldn't she be? Did I miss a post?
I'm great. I was just busy with my cubs for a few days. No worries! I just wasn't able to reply to my PMs right away.
Hugs from:
bizi, bpcyclist, Fuzzybear
Thanks for this!
bpcyclist
  #23  
Old Oct 17, 2020, 02:03 PM
bpcyclist's Avatar
bpcyclist bpcyclist is offline
Legendary
 
Member Since: Sep 2019
Location: Portland
Posts: 12,681
Quote:
Originally Posted by fern46 View Post
I'm great. I was just busy with my cubs for a few days. No worries! I just wasn't able to reply to my PMs right away.
Oh. Yay!
__________________
When I was a kid, my parents moved a lot, but I always found them--Rodney Dangerfield
Hugs from:
bizi, Fuzzybear
Reply
Views: 1520

attentionThis is an old thread. You probably should not post your reply to it, as the original poster is unlikely to see it.




All times are GMT -5. The time now is 03:50 PM.
Powered by vBulletin® — Copyright © 2000 - 2025, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.




 

My Support Forums

My Support Forums is the online community that was originally begun as the Psych Central Forums in 2001. It now runs as an independent self-help support group community for mental health, personality, and psychological issues and is overseen by a group of dedicated, caring volunteers from around the world.

 

Helplines and Lifelines

The material on this site is for informational purposes only, and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis or treatment provided by a qualified health care provider.

Always consult your doctor or mental health professional before trying anything you read here.