Bipolar check-in #56

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MSF is my support forum. You guys.

After two nights with very very little sleep last night I got 4-5 hours. Weird cool dreams of course. Last night was the end of the world and survivors were gathering together at this building of hodgepodge material. Sort of like a bunch of square metal trellises put together with glass and fiberboard coverings. Not everyone spoke English so there was a lot of gestures and shrugging going on. There was a cool stove that had eight burners on three different levels .

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Originally Posted by Mountaindewed MSF is my support forum. You guys.

Oh. Duh

Are any of these people just a little bit professional?!!!!? I talked with my Pdoc today. I told him my Xanax wasn’t working. I was out of control with it and taking 5 a day sometimes. I literally told him everything. Then he said “how about I switch you to Ativan? It works better and longer. I said “yeah whatever but how do I safely go off the Xanax and onto the Ativan?” He said it shouldn’t be a problem. Just take a Xanax and then take an Ativan. Wtf. Is it that easy??? I don’t think so.

But then it got worse. I told him about my new therapist. And he said that she is extremely unprofessional and wants me to stop seeing her ASAP. He said in the meantime would I be ok doing a few video sessions with my previous T. I said “I’d be ok. But I’m not sure about her” I swear this T is like being in a bad relationship. She’s toxic. Yet I desperately want to go back to her. Plus I’m not sure she’ll take me back with the transference that was going on. And if she says no that’s just gonna destroy me.

I feel soooo ****ed up right now.

@Mountaindewed

I cannot believe your pdoc recommended another benzo!!!!! He’s right, Ativan is better, but it’s just as addictive and you can easily overserve yourself with that too. I started to have a problem with Ativan but I stopped it right away once I realized because the absolute last thing I need is an addiction.

Your pdoc sounds like HE’S a bad influence too. And I’m sorry for that.

I realized today that I became obsessive about my weight loss and diet at around November. Like not to the point of an eating disorder but definitely disordered eating. I realized this because today I was incredibly depressed over the fact that I ate poorly in the evening. I was not expecting to go out to eat but RS wanted to go to an outdoor restaurant because it was so nice out. So all of a sudden I was faced with the challenge of finding something healthy at a restaurant not designed to be healthy. I ate a big burger. Well, half of it. But then I couldn’t sleep so around 11 I had to eat again. And I was so upset I had to eat again that I ate a whole bunch of m&ms too.

I don’t think it would have been so upsetting if we weren’t already planning to go out tonight to another unhealthy restaurant to celebrate my son’s last day of school. So I was freaked out about eating so poorly two days in a row that I just overate just to punish myself.

This is an important realization because I need to take immediate action. I have put away my scale and deleted my food diary app. I had already deleted the calorie counting app but even the food diary is triggering. I held my unicorn to help with the physical symptoms of the depression and spent the second group writing about 15 positive affirmations mainly telling myself that weight isn’t important right now. I’m going to still learn how to eat healthier just to fuel my body with more vitamins and nutrients that I need. I am planning to start practicing eating mindfully so I can prevent the binges.

Sometimes I get overwhelmed with how much needs to change in my mind.

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Originally Posted by wildflowerchild25 .... Sometimes I get overwhelmed with how much needs to change in my mind.

Mine, too

I just feel lousy. I’m not sleeping, I’m fatigued, I hurt and I’m having gastrointestinal issues. I don’t handle being ill very well. Not in a poor me way but in a how dare you! way. My family is eating out tonight to see my nephew who is in the military before he leaves and to meet my niece’s fiancée and I’m not well enough to go. It’s a real bummer! I guess compassion is called for instead of trying to force myself better. Oh well! I’ll work on compassion and self love instead of anger and hope I get better soon.

I send hugs to all.

I also had my appointment with my primary half an hour after the Pdoc. I explained the abnormal bleeding. He gave me a referral to a gynecologist for an exam and an ultrasound. Said my uterus may be thickening. Which is what I thought too. If that’s the case I may be approved by my insurance for a hysterectomy since it would be medically necessary and I wouldn’t have to go through all the hoops if it wasn’t medically necessary. The referral is in my old state but I asked specifically for a person who is trans friendly. My doctor didn’t know anyone in my state but he knew about this doctor who’s in the same network. My mom said this doctor isn’t too far. The others were in the big hospitals in the city. But that’s if it’s not medical.

I just wish my Pdoc hadn’t brought up my old T. I think I’d be ok being on a waiting list and with the new meds. Also the bleeding was majorly stressing me out and now that I’m getting that taken care of I feel better.

But I feel really sick today and I can’t eat much and I had a ton of sudden diarrhea earlier. I wish I had mentioned this to someone. But my “period” is in 10 days and I often feel badly physically during my PMDD.

I just hope I didn’t wreck anything with all my melatonin,Xanax, and Advil. I really wish I had talked to my primary about this.

I was on Ativan a few times before and the last time I managed with being prescribed 15 a month. About 3 a week and it was all I needed. I was taken off it cold turkey one time, I think I was on 1 or 2 mil a day. I did ok with that and I had no withdrawals. I switched to visteril which worked for a few months but the side effects for the first 24 hours after I took one were bad. I tried 25 mil of visteril and it made me hungry and unable to lose weight no matter how hard I tried.

But yeah I was surprised he didn’t get pissed and yank me off off it and all he said was “how about we Ativan instead.”

My mental health providers are all wackos. My medical ones are good though.

I requested a refill of my meds and my pdoc says she wants to see me before she authorizes it. I only have 10 days left and she's in only twice a week, I hope I can get an appointment with her before I run out.

My anxiety is way up. It's been up for many months now but I think I need to make clear that I need help to cope with it.

I wear a Fitbit to track my sleep and activity and it has been congratulating me that I've had my heart rate at over 100 for a couple of hours each day. I didn't pay much attention to that for a while but when I looked back at what I was doing at the time, I wasn't doing anything at all. Just working or reading etc. And my heart is going over 100! I looked back at this and it has been going on for months!

I used to be on gabapentin but I don't like taking all those big pills 3-4 times a day. I really don't know what else she could do to help me, but I guess that's why she's the doctor. I also used to be on Ativan but I guess that's a benzo which I think they're cutting back on overall.

I'm sorry things are going poorly for you. Hopefully the new day will find you on the upswing. I can relate the the feelings you're experiencing due to lack of sleep. I've had two good nights, however, & some of the fatigue has lifted. I was up at 3:00 this morning again, though. I sincerely hope you can squeeze in one or two good nights of sleep so you can get back into the swing of life again. Missing out on your family gatherings must grate you, but you're right about showing yourself more compassion. Your attitude remains intact!

@Nammu...I know sleep has been eluding you, too. I hope this cycle ends soon. It seems so many of us are going through this right now. The summer solstice is Monday, so I'm somewhat convinced that might be messing with people's sleep rhythms.

@BethRags...Stay cool, woman...Stay cool! 111 degrees sounds absolutely brutal! The Giants are in first place, 2.5 games ahead of those fukking Dodgers! They're also riding a 4 game winning streak. You & your husband must be pretty happy about that. (BTW, I didn't get your @ message.)

Tomorrow is my nieces' (yes, plural) graduation party. It should be fun. My partner has today off work, so she'll put me to work vacuuming, steam cleaning carpets, etc. I need a kick in the pants sometimes. I don't know what things will be like when she retires on July 2. The pandemic was good practice for spending long periods of time together, though.

I did a lot of "appearance self-care" this morning to prepare for our little weekend trip. There's still more to do. As for mental self-care, it sure would be nice if the powers that be would help out a bit.

I got on the scale for the first time in ages and the reading was scary, but not terribly surprising. I must arrest this weight gain and eat and exercise better. I'm the highest I've been in almost 10 years. Only 12 lbs less than my lifetime high, when I was pre-diabetic and had very high triglycerides and high cholesterol. No fooling myself. It's getting dangerous.

My mini excitement for the day will be scaling, gutting, and butterflying small whole sardines, for the first time. I feel confident about it, after watching a good instructional video. I have fileted fish before, but techniques at handling them can vary a bit by fish. Yea, I'm sure others wouldn't derive as much pleasure from this. I also need to get Hubby to sharpen the knife. He thinks he's better at that than me. Likely is, but I don't like that task, anyway.

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Originally Posted by Jennifer 1967 I just feel lousy. I’m not sleeping, I’m fatigued, I hurt and I’m having gastrointestinal issues. I don’t handle being ill very well. Not in a poor me way but in a how dare you! way. My family is eating out tonight to see my nephew who is in the military before he leaves and to meet my niece’s fiancée and I’m not well enough to go. It’s a real bummer! I guess compassion is called for instead of trying to force myself better. Oh well! I’ll work on compassion and self love instead of anger and hope I get better soon. I send hugs to all.

I hope you're feeling better very soon

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Originally Posted by Scooter9 I requested a refill of my meds and my pdoc says she wants to see me before she authorizes it. I only have 10 days left and she's in only twice a week, I hope I can get an appointment with her before I run out. My anxiety is way up. It's been up for many months now but I think I need to make clear that I need help to cope with it. I wear a Fitbit to track my sleep and activity and it has been congratulating me that I've had my heart rate at over 100 for a couple of hours each day. I didn't pay much attention to that for a while but when I looked back at what I was doing at the time, I wasn't doing anything at all. Just working or reading etc. And my heart is going over 100! I looked back at this and it has been going on for months! I used to be on gabapentin but I don't like taking all those big pills 3-4 times a day. I really don't know what else she could do to help me, but I guess that's why she's the doctor. I also used to be on Ativan but I guess that's a benzo which I think they're cutting back on overall.

My anxiety has been off the charts lately. Pdoc prescribed an AP. Have you tried one for anxiety? Even at a low dose an AP can help.

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Originally Posted by buddha1too ... @BethRags...Stay cool, woman...Stay cool! 111 degrees sounds absolutely brutal! The Giants are in first place, 2.5 games ahead of those fukking Dodgers! They're also riding a 4 game winning streak. You & your husband must be pretty happy about that. (BTW, I didn't get your @ message.) Tomorrow is my nieces' (yes, plural) graduation party. It should be fun. My partner has today off work, so she'll put me to work vacuuming, steam cleaning carpets, etc. I need a kick in the pants sometimes. I don't know what things will be like when she retires on July 2. The pandemic was good practice for spending long periods of time together, though.

That the Giants are in 1st place mitigates the brutality of this heat some.

Enjoy your nieces' grad party. It sounds like fun!

I reply and post here and there, but I'm actually sleeping too much. I wake up - work - nap - work - sleep. I nap for more than 2 hours every day. I have to work on my other job but have not finished anything this week. I have to do it this weekend.

I'm on Latuda and have been taking it for years. I think I'm maxed out on the dose so I can't go higher.

I tried Seroquel but even at the smallest dose it makes me very tired - I tried it for a couple of weeks but couldn't function on it.

I saw in another post that you tried gabapentin, how's that working out for you?

Oh dear! My super senior cat has never minded going to the vet or traveling before. But today I brought up his carrier and now he’s disappeared! He has an appointment at 2:30. He’s been losing weight and I think drinking more water. No other changes but the weight loss is noticeable. The only change in behavior is disappearing. He doesn’t do that so now I’m worried he is sick and doesn’t want to go to the vets. Oh, he just came back. I didn’t expect to get in so soon. True living here the only place he goes now is to the vets. Before in Texas we traveled. He doesn’t mind the car at all and he’s fine in hotel rooms. But since I moved back to Minnesota I go nowhere. Poor guy.