[Miss Laura]

I feel really great but equally really sad. Been like this for 3 days now. I can't wait to get to bed but I just lie there in the dark thinking. I have no motivation at all. Kinda feel like crying constantly. I know I'm grieving so that's not helping it's only been 2 months since I lost my Mum. Even writing this is effort. But I need to write this. I think I'm going down-wards.... like maybe depressed?? Have I been an idiot as usual??

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[Moose72]

Who says you're an "idiot as usual"? It's only normal to grieve the loss of your mother.

[Miss Laura]

Originally Posted by Moose72

Who says you're an "idiot as usual"? It's only normal to grieve the loss of your mother.

Me!! I mean I fooled around with this guy we are meeting again soon, then there is texting this married guy and then there is this guy coming to my house next week. Why am I like this?? I wish I wasn't like this

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@Miss Laura and all:

It's a woman's prerogative to change her mind, so if you no longer feel into these men, just cancel. Treasure yourself!!! Grief can sometimes make people do desperate things. I know my sister got into something she wasn't ready for soon after my dad's death. She fawned over my dad and was destroyed when he died. She started something with a real handsome and tall and handsome and tall guy at school and it ended badly, with her getting hurt AGAIN, just adding to her pain over my dad's death.

So, if you're not 100% sure you want to go with these guys just tell them to bugger off! An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure! Not sure if i have that saying right, but i'm trying. You are a gem, a jewel and hoard your exquisiteness to yourself and only bestow your charms on men who deserve it!!!

Wishing you lots of love and light!!!

Jane.

[*Beth*]

I second what Jane said. Take care of YOU

[bizi]

I am sorry you are struggling now.
be kind to yourself.
(((((HUGS)))))
bizi