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Nov 07, 2021 at 08:01 AM
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someone asked me today why I'm not going to see my parents on christmas
bare in mind, this person knows the situation and that they arn't allowed to be near me because of the abuse they inflicted I said well, you know why. I all ready told you before and then she's like well.. if you could see them for christmas, would you? uh... no. I wouldn't. after what they have done to me I think she meant somethingl ike, if you had family who loved you and apreciated you, would you see them? but it didn't feel like that. it felt like saying well... you choose not to se them, and you choose to be lonely. no, I choose to follow the rules of the court, and I choose not to be abused it really frustrated me today |
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Nov 07, 2021 at 11:49 AM
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It can be so frustrating when someone just doesn't doesn't 'get it.' I hope that person's lack of understanding stops bothering you soon
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Nov 07, 2021 at 11:52 AM
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People can be unbelievably obtuse and insensitive. My heart goes out to you!
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Nov 07, 2021 at 02:28 PM
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Just stick to your guns! You are right to protect yourself from further abuse.
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Nov 07, 2021 at 03:26 PM
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That's rough RV. I don't blame you for not wanting to spend the holidays with your parents, I wouldn't either. Sending hugs
I hope you don't let their comments take up too much headspace.
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Nov 09, 2021 at 08:47 AM
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Whoever this is, they are lacking in sensitivity and intelligence…
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