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"I do understand that stress can kill as surely as anything and I need to get it under control. " May be I misread you, but you cannot control stress. The best way you can relate to stress is to take a good look at your life and see what has to change. After making a decision about changes, you have to sit down and make a plan for how to make those changes, step by step. You so often talk about moving out. How do you actively do that (if that is what you still want)? The next is to learn relaxation techniques that you can use when a stressful event occurs. Then get enough sleep, physical exercise, healthy food and some good and healthy relations with other people. In short: You have to give up one sort of life style to build another ... How will you do that? (And Jennifer, for God's sake, please stop using Ritalin. Ritalin is for ADHD and not for people with bipolar disorder. Google it). Last edited by Anonymous 42424; May 19, 2022 at 08:02 AM.. |
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I feel a bit down. Many things to "think" about. I will go out for a meal. Hope that helps my general stability. I mean to sit down to eat a well prepared meal can help one to relax. Hope to start afresh to morrow!
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Not doing so hot today. My life has very little meaning and I'm realizing more and more that it's not working towards anything better. I don't want to feel any more pain and there is no path forward without it. I really was starting to feel something special for this person in my life who begged to be there -- who left me because my situation makes a relationship "unsustainable". It's not that I think that's wrong -- it's just makes me wonder what am I trying to do ? I don't have a job, I cant get out from under my situation with my mother, I think a relationship is well out of the question -- no one wants someone like me in this situation. I just don't know what to do about my life.
I've been yelled at, called a piece of crap for my situation, I've been poked and prodded to try to change it, I've been gently coddled and told it will change in time... but nothing changes. I can't make the change. I hate what my life is, I have who I am, I hate everything. It's just a really rough place to be. __________________ |
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I slept fitfully last night. I was up from about 12-4 dealing with the swallowing thing. I got it under control with tylenol and a valium and my AM geodon and then I ate something since I skipped dinner. Then I was able to get back to sleep for a couple more hours. I asked my mom if I was more likely to die right now then she was. And she said there was a chance. I mean you can't just go your whole life saying you want your mom to outlive you and then be upset when theres a possibilty it could happen. Anyways, I got my weekly shot this morning so I'm starting to calm down mental health wise about everything and I'm starting to think more clearly. The day before my injection I can get very anxious and moody regardless of what is going on.
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Here is a link about it: Ritalin: Uses, Dosage, Side Effects & Warnings - Drugs.com Work with your therapist against the guilt. You know the first commandment says that you shall love God first. Yes, I know about the other commandment that says that one shall honor one's father and mother. Personally I think that part of loving God is to take care of our health, both emotional and physical . That is a way of honoring God. Your mother and brother are obliged to put God first as well. To cling to an exhausted daughter and sister is to misuse her. It is not about love. They can have good care at a nursing home. To give you the freedom to develop is part of loving you. Of course they don't understand that when they are frightened. May be you should use a lot of time to prepare them about that a nursing home is the best for them in this stage of their life. You can tell them that you love them, but that neither of you benefit from you falling apart because it is too much for you. The longer you stay with them, the worse it will become to to be on your own. Take your time and go in your own tact. Hope that it may help you to take a decision on this topic when you try to see it from a Christian point of view (I know you believe in God). What do you owe God as your Creator and Father? What interferes with your obligations to God alone? It has helped me to think through these questions when I have had hard choices to make. I even used it right now in a over-thinking process. I wish you good luck with fining good relaxation techniques that really work for you! Best wishes! Last edited by Anonymous 42424; May 19, 2022 at 10:57 AM.. |
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Sounds yummy! I like Turkish food, too. It's actually widely available where I am in Czech Republic. A lot of people from Turkey come to Czech Republic, Germany, and Austria and open up restaurants or at least takeout joints or wagons. Tonight my husband and I got takeout Indian food from our favorite Indian restaurant. That was yummy, too. Butter chicken and lamb korma curry with basmati rice and naan. I added some steamed cauliflower for a vegetable. __________________ Dx: Bipolar type 1 Psych Medications: * Tegretol XR (carbamazepine ER) 800 mg * Lamictal (lamotrigine) 150 mg * Seroquel XR (quetiapine ER) 600 mg I also take meds for blood pressure, cholesterol, and tachycardia. |
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#791
Today Hubby and I went to a dermatologist. He asked about his roseacea, I asked for confirmation that an "age spot" was safe (there's skin cancer in my family) and how to lessen its appearance. In the end, it turned out she said it was actually a mole and not cancerous. Never saw a "mole" like what I had. I say "had" because she removed the thing with a laser...on the spot. As she was doing it, I smelled my burning flesh. Kinda unpleasant, but it didn't hurt. I just need to put a cream on it for a few days. I was flabbergasted that the whole thing only cost 500 czk, which equals US $22. In the US, my co-pay alone would have been at least $40. Plus, since this wasn't cancerous or in any way painful or medically necessary, it was really just a cosmetic procedure. Imagine a cosmetic laser treatment in the US costing as little as $22 total?
In a couple weeks, I get more done to my spruce up before my France trip. Hair trim, roots colored, hair styled. A couple days before that, I get a special facial. The same type I had and loved some months back. In addition to usual facial stuff, it includes eyebrow cleanup/shaping (and any other waxing on face), eyebrow and eyelash tinting, and light makeup. Probably where I used to live in New Jersey all of that (not the hair salon stuff) together would have likely cost $200 or more. Here the whole price will be 750 czk (US $32) plus a little tip. Even all of the hair services I've been getting here have been less than half of what I paid in New Jersey. Gotta confess that as a frugal woman, I'm now willing to do more physical upkeep. It feels good. __________________ Dx: Bipolar type 1 Psych Medications: * Tegretol XR (carbamazepine ER) 800 mg * Lamictal (lamotrigine) 150 mg * Seroquel XR (quetiapine ER) 600 mg I also take meds for blood pressure, cholesterol, and tachycardia. Last edited by Soupe du jour; May 19, 2022 at 02:03 PM.. |
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Ahh Soupe you're making me jealous. I'm trying to pay an overdue ambulance bill that's $1600. If it were up to me I would take an uber to get from the ER to the psych facility but that's not allowed because docs gotta make bank.
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Once I was transported to the ER from my home and was then admitted into a psych hospital (from the ER) the next day. Later down the line, my husband received a bill for that ambulance ride. However, our health insurance policy stated that the cost of the ambulance was covered as long as the ER visit resulted in a hospitalization. So, the bill was falsely sent. Hubby confirmed it and then called to make a complaint. The bill was then nullified. Not sure if this could have been a possibility for you, assuming you have health insurance. My ride from the ER to the psych hospital was covered, though I'll say they weren't too far from each other. __________________ Dx: Bipolar type 1 Psych Medications: * Tegretol XR (carbamazepine ER) 800 mg * Lamictal (lamotrigine) 150 mg * Seroquel XR (quetiapine ER) 600 mg I also take meds for blood pressure, cholesterol, and tachycardia. Last edited by Soupe du jour; May 19, 2022 at 02:23 PM.. |
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Thank you for the update UTI's suck alright, but in general, it all sounds excellent! The Cipro should kick it right out. And drink lots of water! Dr. Smith sounds like a gem. I have not had a good GP for many years. My current one is out on maternity leave - I couldn't be happier because it gives me the chance to switch to a different doc. I've seen him a couple of times and he was terrific. I'm so glad you got checked out. Now, about that stress.........It will be interesting for you to see how you feel while in Florida. __________________ |
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I have to take Abbycat to the vet in a few minutes. She's been wheezing for about a week and I'm worried she has tried to swallow something that is stuck. I thought it might be allergies and have kept the AC on but that maybe helped a little but very far from solved it. She has had a day or two without symptoms and then other days are bad. I have a video of it for the vet to see since I'm sure we can't induce it.
I hate taking her to the vet. I hate putting her in her carrier so much. the ride is short but she hates it and then the wait (which will be long at this time of day) makes her upset and the vet experience isn't good. I'm sure this will involve labs and possibly x=rays which will also upset her. 30 more minutes until carrier time. __________________ Bipolar 1, PTSD, GAD, OCD. Clozapine 250 mg, Emsam 12 mg/day patch, topamax 25 mg, ,Gabapentin 1700 mg & 100-2 PRN,. 1.5 mg clonazepam., 50 mg Seroquel |
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I hope and pray your mom will follow through. Oh, that would be outstanding. I hear you on the cognitive issues. I am positive that psych meds cause memory problems. I can't even count the number of times I watch a show and I'm half-way through the season when suddenly one scene will trigger my vague, far away memory and I realize I've been watching a season I saw only a few months ago. Absolutely no recollection of any of it. It is an extremely unsettling feeling. Bringing a notebook is a smart idea. __________________ |
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That's not always the case. Sometimes Ritalin is used for bipolar depression, also for people who have BD and ADHD. In those cases, Ritalin can reduce stress. An open study of methylphenidate in bipolar depression - PubMed And, of course, there are situations in which Ritalin can set off mania. If it were me I'd go with how much I trust my prescriber. __________________ |
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Oh Soupe the prices over there sound so reasonable. I do more self care if it was more reasonable here. For my 60th birthday I went to have the full works and that didn’t include a facial or massage but it was over two hundred. Can’t imagine what it is now post covid with inflation!
I hear y’all on the cost of health care. Once they took me from one cities hours away to a psych center in an ambulance but fortunately that was covered by my insurance. They really need an alternative transportation for psych hospitals. It was harrowing to have to lay on my back for the hours long ride. __________________ Nammu …Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. …... Desiderata Max Ehrmann |
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It is shocking and it is shameful, the cost of things here. And the neglect of medical procedures. Good luck getting anything cosmetic done here, unless you pay $$$$$. It's good to know that you have had/will have self-care done that won't break the bank. __________________ |
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Oh, the vet. There is nothing and no place I dread more. How's Abbycat? __________________ |
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