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Default Yesterday at 08:59 PM
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Housing loan? You can’t get a loan with no income.
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Yes as disabled I get medical. My family doesn't in most states. They are classified by the state not federally. We would loose their assistance moving.

Yes, I qualify it's for people on disability. So I would pay about $200 a month.

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Yes it is better here. I see pdoc every 2 weeks vs 3 months. I have a therapist now. I've never lived in an assessable unit. I don't have people trying to break into my house. I have a bus system. There's no cockroachs. Where we have always lived has been miserable. But we have a home. We have food. We have medical. Things that ALL the other states failed.

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I understand I don't have high standards but this is what poverty in America looks like. I can either move and try yet again or rely on myself.

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I don't see why it is impossible to cook things like rice, boiled eggs, pasta if your husband is home. It sounds like he doesn't work? And I assume he doesn't have the physical disabilities you do? Why can't he use a knife to cut, boil & cook rice, pasta, potatoes, etc.?

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That's the thing, if I'm hungry and he's sleeping I have to wake him up. If he's really sick I'm ****ed. He was in bed for a week, we lived off cereal bars and almost got evicted because I couldn't take care of the place. My mom had to fly in. Then there was the time he was in the hospital for a week. Victoria help me through that but she's moving. Then there was the time my nephew needed help for two months. I did sponge baths then. Without Victoria I wouldn't be able to do it and even then it wasn't good.

I need a place I can:
Do laundry (in unit w/d)
Shower (walk in shower)
Do dishes ( double sink)
Cook basic meals ( straight line open kitchen)
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First floor
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It's not a lot I'm asking for. I just need a place I can modify.

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I'm also scared if something happens to him what happens to me. He has heart failure. His dad had his first heart attack at 45. Is only in his 60 an in and out of the hospital. I need to succeed and move so I don't get institutionalized.

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