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Old 12-15-2021, 11:48 AM   #1
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Hello (15m) I've been struggling with low self esteem and my physical appearance mostly because of my face, I was looking for some help these months but I didn't get anything helpful. I know being beautiful is not everything in life but I cant feel happy or ever comfortable with myself while I see beautiful and handsome people around me, I feel even more ugly and embarrassed than I already am and I can't help.

Talking to people doesn't help because seems like my case is extremely weird / specific and asking how to love or accept myself doesn't help as long i get answers I consider useless because it's not that easy to just take care of myself and start to love myself like a magic trick.

I'm starting to feel tired of all this, I tried self help stuff, I tried to go to therapy but I was a bit unlucky, talking to my mother or everyone else doesn't help either because they are not willing to help or they just lie to me and I'm feeling worse everyday. I post here because I want to know if I can get some help or some support.
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Even Tom Cruise was ugly at your age, if that helps. Really, at your age, you are going to have all kinds of awkward stages, as parts of your body grow faster or slower than others. OTOH, from babyhood on, we get less cute and adorable.

The usual advice is to emphasize your positive traits, de-emphasize any negatives. Start with cute hair, thats what i do. (69F)
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Beauty is not in the face but a light shining in your heart! Kahlil Gibran
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