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Jul 15, 2009, 02:45 PM
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Cutting "friends" out of my life is something I hate to do. I also hate to be misunderstood and misjudged - who doesn't. NONE of us here deserve "toxic" people in our lives, no matter how "difficult" (or worse
 ) they may perceive us.This is not about anyone on pc. It just becomes tiring seeing people with this disorder maligned over and over again when they are trying to survive, grow and even thrive. Yes they may "regress", make "stupid" mistakes, even lash out.... However it becomes burdensome being a repeated target of projection while their sense of self is still fragile. "They" are people too.... wounded people, usually with very loving hearts. love to all 
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Jul 15, 2009, 03:09 PM
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Fuzzybear,
I love the name! You're right when you say that nobody deserves toxic people in their life. It is hard to cut those people out. But even toxic people need love and affection and all that the rest of us need. Can you explain a little more who you're referring to? Are you being maligned? Are you trying to cut somebody out of your life? Love and Hugs, Tara
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Jul 15, 2009, 03:09 PM
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((((((((((((Fuzzy)))))))))))))
you is such good bear! and, yes it can be difficult to have to cut someone out of your life................ it is also difficult then others cut us out of their life just because they do not understand! beads hope things gets easeir for you soon and please know that we is here for you always! sending warm fuzzies and much freindly hugs your way! beads  
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Jul 15, 2009, 05:20 PM
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thanks, I'm going back to my cave, its safer
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Jul 20, 2009, 10:14 AM
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Lots of good insight here Fuzzy..........
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