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#1
Oct 21, 2009, 12:11 AM
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If someone used to call me "sweetie" and then stops I am hurt
Now how freakin pathetic is that? I don't tell them of course. But it often happens. Again it probably reflects on me and who I am. Because I'm nothing. I'm talking about people IRL. I'm nothing but a baby, a big fat blob of need.
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Oct 21, 2009, 01:50 AM
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   We are all big fat blobs of need, (((Fuzzy))) - that's what it means to be a human being - and we all need to feel that we belong, that we are important, that we matter, that we are needed - this is what it means to live in a cooperative society - our needs bind us together because we cannot survive without each other.For someone to affectionately address you as "Sweetie" validates your value and worth as a person - this is important to you because of how you have been mistreated by those who are supposed to be teaching you how to value yourself, and when that person stops calling you "Sweetie," you feel less valued and rejected. What you are feeling is not pathetic, Fuzzy - you are keenly sensitive to the words and actions of others towards you because of your mistreatment. But you must always remember that your value and worth as a person is not determined by others - it is determined by you. You must learn to treat yourself more kindly than your "family" members do - they abuse you enough - don't let them trick you into abusing yourself for them. I'll be more than happy to call you "Sweetie Fuzzy" from now on - I think it suits you.
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#3
Oct 21, 2009, 05:52 AM
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((((((((((((((((((((((((((sweetiefuzzy
 ))))))))))))))))))))))))))))Luv ya Fuzz xxxxx
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The feather landed gently at his feet. The boy looked back up at the sky and let his balloon go. It was a fair trade. ~ quote by Dominic my wonderful son  " As we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same." ― Marianne Williamson |
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Oct 24, 2009, 10:40 PM
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((((((( SweetieFuzzy ))))))))))
You are sweet, whether or not anybody says it or calls you sweetie.
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“We should always pray for help, but we should always listen for inspiration and impression to proceed in ways different from those we may have thought of.” – John H. Groberg
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#5
Oct 24, 2009, 11:16 PM
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you are a sweety
take care of you P7
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Oct 25, 2009, 05:09 PM
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Fuzzy, I am going to call you sweetie till the end of time......or until you get sick of it
 .......because you are a sweetieAnd if you are a big fat blob of need then so am I....... Sometimes I am so needy......it makes my skin hurt. We shall be needy together......for some times it is stronger than other times......so when you feel needy, reach out......I can almost guarantee that I will be right alongside of you..... And we can give each other hugs........that we need..... LETS BE PROUD NEEDY PEOPLE!!!!!! Much love and hugs to you babe..... Michah
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#7
Oct 27, 2009, 09:32 PM
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Well, maybe tell them? Or perhaps you've decided they are intentionally doing this?
Maybe you could find out what is real by asking when this happens, so you will know and won't have to wonder. What they do, including what they say or how they say it, is about them. That is separate from how you take it in, which is about you. I hope you are better today.   
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