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Jun 24, 2011, 01:57 AM
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Put yourself in this situation if you're able...
You're happily married with two kids, own home etc Your partner has just come out of a drug addiction You have BPD, PPD, Anxiety and you know its best you stay medicated Would you add another child into this dynamic? |
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Jun 25, 2011, 07:19 PM
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Well if one is already on its way...not much can be said...
I choose a permanent solution after my now ex-wife had our 3rd child.
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Jun 26, 2011, 12:29 AM
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I don't have kids, a partner, or a substance abuse issue. But for what its worth, if the baby is on the way and you want to keep the baby, with the right support and clear communication you can do it i am sure!
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Jul 02, 2011, 08:13 AM
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Yes, there are issues, but if you do say you are happily married...well thats worth a whole lot I say. We all have issues but love makes a big difference. If you are pregnant now or thinking of it, the baby will come into a family with problems yes, but love can beat all the problems...A child needs love..sounds like there is love in that home of yours!!!
 Hugs; Dee
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Jul 02, 2011, 08:55 PM
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It's been taken out of my hands as been bleeding for a few days.
Thanks for your input 
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