[BorderlineBrittany]

How do you control your needyness? How do you control your need for attention? For someone? Im so lost... I want someone so bad.. but don't want to push him away but our lives just dont fit together.. we see eachother when we can and we text daily... But my need for him is unbielevable.. When we are with eachother sparks fly... I want him to fit me into his life... But he cant/wont? Hes not a bad guy. Just very busy.. I know he may not be the one for me.. but why do i try and push?

[Trippin2.0]

I'm sorry this is of no help, but I pretend...
It's the only trick I know

btw. I'm in a very similar boat right now. You're not alone.

[BorderlineBrittany]

YAY!! LOl but wish someone could give me advice or something to occupy my time!!!

[ChaoticSymphony]

I don't know how to help control the neediness. I do remember tho that if I wasn't getting enough attention from one guy I would get it from a few, just texting, coffee type things. That way I wasn't waiting by the phone. It's easy to meet guys, keeping them is another story lol. But if you don't sleep with them then it keeps them around until you are done with them.

[rebnsof]

A good way to control that is to be with other people, hang out a lot, don't think too much... get busy... I think it helps.

[BorderlineBrittany]

Chaotic, its actually hard for me to meet them... But ya Ive got a few in my phone I keep in hand that I havent slept with... But not really interested in them either!
Rebsnof... I have few friends.. Im always busy though.. I have 2 kids...