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Dec 15, 2012, 04:05 PM
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Okay so had 2 date last night it was great.
He is great, flower, doors opened. I brought some drinks but hey I'm an independent woman. But oh my we have not stopped talking. Since we met. And he said that maybe it was fate that we met etc I'm freaking out he thinks or saying I'm fantastic. I can't repay these compliments. Not cos I don't want to I don't know how to! His making out I'm some great person when I'm not. If his feelings for me are real which are really to soon. I could hurt him. I mean like mentally. Maybe I should explain my issues. But that seems to soon to. I do like This guy but don't want to push him away.. Oh fook sake. What do I do? |
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Dec 15, 2012, 04:27 PM
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Dec 15, 2012, 04:27 PM
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Take his compliments on surface value...don't make it mean more than it currently is. Explain to him that you like him but that you're not used to compliments and that you find it hard to take his complements and give them back. Hopefully he can get that and I don't see why he'd be offended, but I wouldn't go in to detail about the BPD. As things come up, give him bits and pieces of info, but it's too early for the whole picture. Plus..you don't know him well, or what types of issues he could have. Everyone has some. We just don't know most people's. Don't push...but if you feel it coming, tell him that things are happening too fast and back away a little to take a breather; a day or two. God, it's hard. I've pushed away almost everyone I ever became friends with, but I wasn't aware I was doing it much of it at the time. You are. You can use that knowledge to prevent it.....hopefully.
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Dec 15, 2012, 04:29 PM
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Yeah this my thoughts exactly... But needed to know they were right.
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Dec 18, 2012, 07:13 PM
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just saw this post...how are things going now?
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Dec 19, 2012, 10:15 AM
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Dec 19, 2012, 11:57 AM
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And his cool with that. I'm going to stand my ground!! :/ Oh and he wants to take me to see the silver linings... Erm awkward. Do you think he knows I crazy B~). Who's he been talking to?? Ha. But on a serious note, I'm trying to keep thoughts, as real as I can and keep my feet on the ground. |
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Dec 21, 2012, 08:55 AM
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oh good. glad to see such a great outlook! And, since I am in US, is the "silver linings" a movie/play? (feeling dumb for asking! lol
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Dec 21, 2012, 06:10 PM
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