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Old Jan 22, 2013, 06:39 PM
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So I feel the need to express this, maybe some of you guys can feel the same way. I feel like I devote myself to people only to see I'm not getting the same devotion back. I HATE that my feelings are intensified and not everyone' s are but it sucks feeling like this. TRUTHFULLY, I would throw myself in front of a car for my only friend, but I doubt she would why is this? I give SOOO much but I feel like I get probably 10%
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Old Jan 22, 2013, 07:56 PM
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Don't know but can definitely relate. I'm willing to do just about anything for some people, but I know it wouldn't be returned by the vast majority if it was ever needed.
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Old Jan 23, 2013, 01:38 AM
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When I had friends, I felt the same way. If they had other friends, I always felt I was at the bottom of the list. And if they were married or otherwise attached, I was SURE I was.
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Old Jan 23, 2013, 02:18 PM
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I can relate, believe me. You aren't alone in this.
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Old Jan 25, 2013, 12:23 PM
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So I feel the need to express this, maybe some of you guys can feel the same way. I feel like I devote myself to people only to see I'm not getting the same devotion back. I HATE that my feelings are intensified and not everyone' s are but it sucks feeling like this. TRUTHFULLY, I would throw myself in front of a car for my only friend, but I doubt she would why is this? I give SOOO much but I feel like I get probably 10%
I know exactly what you mean. I tend to do the same for people and I get walked all over. I know that's not what you're saying but in addition to them not giving the 259.99% I give, many of them end up taking advantage of my giving.
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Old Jan 25, 2013, 03:33 PM
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I GET THIS SO MUCH!!

Long before I explored the possibility of personality disorders, I had a friend tell me of my love life:

"It's ok. You just need to find someone who has as much energy as you and is willing to give 110% from the get go on like you!"

I only now realize that person doesn't exist, nor does the relationship sound...healthy..

I devote ridiculously to anyone I am in a relationship with. Immediately. With force. And passion.
Instead of JUST being walked over though, I end up making these poor people feel like nothing because they can't keep up. I look down on them for their inability to be as devoted and awesome as I. ><

Serious...I am a jerk...
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