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Jul 20, 2013 at 12:22 AM
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I thought someone really liked me. I saw a post that was written not specifically about me, but I can't help but think it applies to me in someway. I don't see how it can't be applicable to me.
I wish that post had never been written or at the very least I had never seen it. I'm pissed that it was written. Such is life! No comments needed. I do not intend on looking at this thread again! Last edited by cboxpalace; Jul 20, 2013 at 12:37 AM.. |
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Jul 20, 2013 at 12:31 AM
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I am sorry you are feeling bad. My therapist is always pointing out to me that I do not know how someone else feels and it is not fair to me nor to them to assume I know what they think or what they feel. This is especially when I think someone does not like me or someone has done or said something bad. I get my feelings hurt because I assume the other person has done or said or thought or felt something negative toward or about me.
Basically, she is trying to get me to stop jumping to conclusions before I KNOW all the facts. It doesn't help me much, because I am very intuitive and I do know many things she thinks I am assuming. Even so, I can see how the principal she is getting across does apply to some of my situations. If I do no assume what he oher person thinks or means, then it could save me some grief. I do not know your situation and I cannot tell if you are doing this or not. It is just the only think I could think of that might help. If it does not apply, just disregard it and know that I do hear you and I care. __________________ Practicing being here now. |
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Jul 20, 2013 at 04:45 AM
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I appreciate your comments, and there is validity in what you said. I could make a very good argument though that they did apply to my situation, but I couldn't guarantee it 100%.
Nonetheless after communicating with this person for well over a year it's now over. |
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Jul 20, 2013 at 05:02 AM
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(((((((((( Cbox ))))))))))
Sending lots of super cyber hugs my friend! 
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Jul 20, 2013 at 06:52 AM
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Is that sexual harassment? or am I misinterpreting something?  love ya Trippin |
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Jul 20, 2013 at 07:20 AM
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So sorry to hear that this is going on. Loss of a friend or SO can be so tough. For unknown reasons, my Best Man no longer speaks to me. I don't understand what happened, or what I did to bring this on, but it's there, and it hurts. Wishing you peace.
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Jul 20, 2013 at 07:22 AM
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Its whatever the hell you want it to be! Love ya muchness Cbox!
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Jul 20, 2013 at 07:56 AM
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That made me smile! I love that "whatever the hell you want it to be!" I"m going with the sexual harassment. That sounds more fun to me. love yah -cbox |
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Jul 20, 2013 at 07:58 AM
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Jul 20, 2013 at 08:39 AM
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(((( cbox ))))
Love you guy! You got a group of girls lovin' you now! 
__________________  Pegasus Got a quick question related to mental health or a treatment? Ask it here General Q&A Forum “Everybody is a genius. But if you judge a fish by it's ability to climb a tree, it will live it's whole life believing that it is stupid.” - Albert Einstein |
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Jul 20, 2013 at 09:20 AM
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******* pegasus... I Love you too. I feel like I've died and gone to heaven.. You know me I love women supporting me...
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Jul 20, 2013 at 09:38 AM
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I wholeheartedly agree, sexual harassment is definitly a step up from misinterpretation! pshh, thats sO borrrring
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Jul 20, 2013 at 09:43 AM
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 Just so you guys know, I'm self-proclaimed group leader! I mean why the hell not? I'm pretty as sin and fk I'd love the attention right about now! LMAO 
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Jul 20, 2013 at 09:43 AM
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And I love you because I remember you saying you only respond to me if you're indecent.
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Jul 20, 2013 at 09:45 AM
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Jul 20, 2013 at 10:05 AM
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Since this is a support forum afterall, let me be supportive by saying that whoever the friend or former friend is.... THEIR LOSS! You're a-ma-zing!  Only issue I have besides an ocean inbetween us, is that I have to share you! But I can live with that
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Jul 20, 2013 at 10:15 AM
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our friendship is a lot like sex.... I can have a bad day, talk to you, and wind up with a smile on my face smoking a cigarette.
If I work at it I'll have over 800 posts today.....
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Jul 20, 2013 at 10:27 AM
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Glad to be at your service, anytime!
 800 sounds doable, I'll help! lol |
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Jul 20, 2013 at 02:15 PM
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You know me, I always need help
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Jul 20, 2013 at 03:26 PM
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__________________ Pegasus Got a quick question related to mental health or a treatment? Ask it here General Q&A Forum “Everybody is a genius. But if you judge a fish by it's ability to climb a tree, it will live it's whole life believing that it is stupid.” - Albert Einstein |
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