[XserenityX]

Yesterday I was upset and depressed because my boyfriend had left me about a week ago. I was horribly upset and begging to take me back and breaking down.

Today, I'm bored with him. We're friends still so I talk to him a lot. But I suddenly don't want to talk to him so much ad I didn't care anymore. I'm bored now.

It's very confusing :/

[allme]

Well I would blame it on the BPD 'don't leave me' syndrome. I have had ppl in my life I didn't care much for but if they said they were leaving or didn't speak to me, I would feel rejected and come over all needy.

Sounds like you need to sit down and think about what it is you really want.

[nicole84]

Ohhh I can relate to this one! Last year an ex left me, I was devastated. Cried for a few days non stop, couldn't eat and just generally didn't want to live anymore.

Then it passed. I do think this is a bpd trait. Also can happen to anyone really, once you're away from the person and the initial shock has passed, you realise that you weren't that happy or that the relationship wasn't right. It's just more pronounced in us BPD'ers.

simple, you hit an emotionally high level of anxiety/panic or whatever, making it so that you weren't thinking rationally at the time and reaching for that person that you felt was the one person taht could alleviate it. Feelings do eventually calm down and in reality you probably have been bored with him for some time and now in your rational view, you are feeling what is reality.