[allme]

I am just feeling raaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaar right now. So fed up today. Feeling uneasy and agitated. I just had a go at my hubby for being such a whiney b**** for the past few days and it's doing my head in. I love him so much but he really p***** me off sometimes with the way he speaks to me like a child and then tells me I am sick and that's why I can't see things from his perspective. Well damn it I have my own perspective too. I just want to feel like a good person but he just points out the bad stuff I do. I guess it's good he calls me out on my s*** but it doesn't feel good when it's done every day. FOr one day I would like him to turn around and say hey you know what you are a good person and I know you're trying your best and good for you etc Whatever, but today I am angry so thought it best I come here before full blown rage really does ruin the day

[IGotThis]

I am so sorry hun... I understand exactly what you mean about people constantly telling you you aren't seeing things right because you are sick... I have the same issue... It's hard for people without it to see past it, and it's just as hard for us not to believe what they say... Just remember: just because they don't have to go through the same hell you do, they are not perfect, either, and there are often times they have misconceptions too..

Please know that you are a good person, and that just because it affects some of your thoughts and emotions doesn't mean that nothing you think and feel is valid. I promise you it is...

Hugs!!!

[Trippin2.0]

So sorry you're feeling shytti. Its not nice to have your flaws pointed out daily. Its like picking at barely healed scabs Good for you for deciding to post instead of entertain the rage b1tch!

You know just because our perceptions can become skewed doesn't mean they're wrong all the time. Just because our brains short circuit at times doesn't mean we cant think for ourselves... You have every right to be annoyed and pissed off.

Maybe address this with hubby once things have calmed down?

sending you cyber hugs

[allme]

Originally Posted by IGotThis

I am so sorry hun... I understand exactly what you mean about people constantly telling you you aren't seeing things right because you are sick... I have the same issue... It's hard for people without it to see past it, and it's just as hard for us not to believe what they say... Just remember: just because they don't have to go through the same hell you do, they are not perfect, either, and there are often times they have misconceptions too..

Please know that you are a good person, and that just because it affects some of your thoughts and emotions doesn't mean that nothing you think and feel is valid. I promise you it is...

Hugs!!!

Thanks for understanding

I hate that too! I get told I'm just thinking irrationally all the time and I'm wrong iand it's because I'm ill. I'm more than capable of having thoughts and opinions too!!

I hope you're feeling better soon

[allme]

Originally Posted by Trippin2.0

So sorry you're feeling shytti. Its not nice to have your flaws pointed out daily. Its like picking at barely healed scabs Good for you for deciding to post instead of entertain the rage b1tch!

You know just because our perceptions can become skewed doesn't mean they're wrong all the time. Just because our brains short circuit at times doesn't mean we cant think for ourselves... You have every right to be annoyed and pissed off.

Maybe address this with hubby once things have calmed down?

sending you cyber hugs

Thanks He is a good man and I love him but he is so nit picky and it drives me mad!

[allme]

Originally Posted by secretwhisper

I hate that too! I get told I'm just thinking irrationally all the time and I'm wrong iand it's because I'm ill. I'm more than capable of having thoughts and opinions too!!

I hope you're feeling better soon

Thanks sweetie

[greentires4me]

everyone else says its better I just don't impose on what they say or feel.

Its just some times they like to hurt you squeeze you up in a little ball and tell you that "U" just don't get. I didn't get it all this time why would I bother on listening to you. its like time to take your army of elves and go wreck something pix's, shovels, mini chainsaws, hoes....the wrecking party and go make the table a shorter on both sides then invisible table wrap it all up until they sit down and crash burn food in the face.