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Nov 14, 2013, 07:17 PM
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So an ex texted me out of the blue, and I forwarded the text to my boyfriend. He freaked out and sent me a text that said, "Both of you are in big ****ing trouble." I didn't do anything to prompt this text and I'm so terrified I'm shaking. Help.
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Nov 14, 2013, 11:01 PM
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What kind of text was it? why did you forward it to your boyfriend? Just curious.. I think if your boyfriend loves you and trusts you than you should be able to explain that you didn't encourage the text at all.. I hope all works out ok and you and your boyfriend can talk calmly about it.
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Nov 14, 2013, 11:21 PM
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Without knowing more I can't really help, but I will say this: our minds have the tendency of taking things and dwelling on them and over time turning them in to the worst possible situation which is far from the truth. Keep that in mind. As hard as it is, wait it out. We dwell on things; most "normal" people do not. It may pass over by morning. Best of luck to you.
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Nov 15, 2013, 06:17 AM
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My opinion based on life experience is, lose that guy. His response was not at all healthy and is a red flag.
I know the fear of abandonment is all consuming, but I urge you to at least think about your relationship in general in order to identify any other possible red flags. Best of luck. |
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Nov 15, 2013, 08:51 AM
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He ended up not being upset with me, just mad at the situation. Concerning this particular ex and some other history in our relationship, his reaction makes sense.
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Nov 15, 2013, 08:03 PM
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I'm glad it turned out ok for you.
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Nov 15, 2013, 08:11 PM
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