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Dec 03, 2013, 08:05 PM
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I decided to cut out all the crazy in my life, the stent lasted only a day or 2 but the euphoria was nice.. Now I can't help but feel empty and alone. I know it wasn't right talking to a married guy but it was SOMEONE, it was really nice to feel interesting and wanted. I feel like it's hopeless to even try and meet anyone because I either meet the wrong person or I mess up with the right person.. It was easier to just keep to myself and stay under my rock "it's a lonely place but it's safe"..
I talk to T on Friday, I didn't get to last week because of the holiday and I'm desperate now. I don't think i'll ever be able to have a healthy relationship with ANYONE :-( |
 joeyalias, technigal, VxVx
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Dec 03, 2013, 09:59 PM
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The pain I feel from feeling abandoned is the worst feeling I've ever had..
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Dec 03, 2013, 10:08 PM
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I know that feeling well. The last time it really hit, I ran. I was in a "mania" for close to two months and I was given the opportunity to run far. I'm now in Idaho, 2,600 miles from "home". Yep. Kinda hard to top that one.
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Dec 04, 2013, 02:14 PM
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Dec 04, 2013, 03:10 PM
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LTL, I know just how you feel. To tell you the truth I have abandoned romantic relationships. For me, I am better off without them than to be involved in all the drama they cause. And married men are just never, ever a good idea. Trust me. I have been there and done that. Even if they leave their current spouse for you just remember "what they did with you, they will do to you." A cheater is a cheater. You will never be happy with that kind of guy.
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I have heard about your "normal" and it does not sound like fun to me. |
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Dec 04, 2013, 03:33 PM
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It is never easy for me to trust men, period. If I made the choice to be with a married man as I had when I was much younger, then the whole idea would replant itself in my head even stronger that no man can be trusted. It is devaluing to everyone involved. The emptiness hurts, how well I know, and yet, it can in time be filled again. We may never find the RIGHT one, going through relationships that don't work isn't any fun, but there are still more adequate opportunities out there and I know that right NOW feeling alone that probably doesn't help very much but in essence, my thoughts are that it's worth it. And that we can enjoy some good, positive, healthier experiences along the way too. We all like attention and to feel special, and we are allowed to talk to married men!!!!!!
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Dec 04, 2013, 03:51 PM
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"The hottest love, has the coldest end" - Socrates |
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