In october, my mother got really sick (hospital, surgery). During this time, my sister-in-law attacked my daughter in a family message thread on facebook. it was horrible and public. I skipped going to their house for thanksgiving because I was still so angry. And my T doesn't want me to go there on Christmas day afraid of my impulse to slam that b**ch with a copy of her own hurtful/spiteful words! My T pointed out that a family gathering wouldn't be appropriate for this ... LOL I don't NEED to be there on Christmas. In fact Sunday is really the holiday for me, spending it with my daughter

and my parents(ugh) .
So some how I have to work through/get passed this, but I don't think I can without confronting her in person. She lives in another state, have no idea when I am going to be able to do this.