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Jan 28, 2014, 09:51 AM
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I feel abandoned
 That's because I was abandoned And it wasn't me who did anything wrong  Not about anyone here Stupid gullible little furry paws How do you deal with being abandoned and split black? (on another forum recently, not pc)How do you learn to trust when some who you trusted for 10 years turn on you A little background.... I was thrown out by both parents, abandoned... And had to fight to survive (as many others I'm sure... Hurts to be hated by own parents though
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Jan 28, 2014, 10:15 AM
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Sorry Fuzzy.
I can not imagine how a parent could do such a thing. I do, however, try to give everyone the benefit of doubt. We are all flawed / imperfect people. I may be a great parent, but am a lousy person. Maybe your parents are great people, but lousy parents. I do not know. I just know we are all less than ideal. Try not to be too hard on them. And certainly do not be hard on yourself......... God bless you. |
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Jan 28, 2014, 10:36 AM
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 Fuzzy I can't imagine how a parent could abandon their child. I'm sorry you had to go through that.As far as people on message boards, if it's one like this one, we all have our bad moods that could cause rift between one another. I'm sure the person was having a bad day and hurt you. I'm sorry because I can't think of a kinder, nicer bear than you.
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Jan 28, 2014, 12:43 PM
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Fuzzy I am sorry that your parents abandoned you. You did not deserve that. I am also sorry that someone who you trusted turned on you. Trust is hard to give and so it shatters us when someone breaks that trust.
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Jan 28, 2014, 11:09 PM
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Fuzzy, I can relate, my mother never really supported me, my dad was my rock. When he died my mother was finally free to do what she always wanted, abandon me at the worst possible time. {{{hugs}}}
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Feb 05, 2014, 04:42 AM
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My mother was narcissistic and emotionally abused and abandoned me many times. I now have to have no contact with her to stop myself from getting more ill.
I fear abandonment so much, I am so insecure with my husband, I know it stems from my childhood. I am hoping that we can all move on and gain new insights and beliefs that not everyone is going to act like our parent/s did.
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Feb 06, 2014, 06:17 PM
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Dear dear Fuzzy Bear, you are such a kind understanding bear! I'm so sorry that you were abandoned by the very people who should have been there. It makes me appreciate that my parents were always here, one still is. I send you biggest HUGZZ and a great deal of LOVES, as ever. XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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