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Unhappy May 20, 2014 at 06:35 PM
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I have to quit my job. Everyone hates me there. I'm all alone in this town straight out of college. I thought I could do it. I thought I could be independent but I messed up. My BPD ruined my life again. I don't know what to do!
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Default May 20, 2014 at 08:55 PM
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Personally, if that is how I felt, I would look at my options and go from there. Just because you aren't happy it doesn't mean you couldn't do it. It may just mean that it isn't what you thought it would be. It is never too late to give something else a shot. OR stick it out a bit longer...things have a way of turning around sometimes!!

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Default May 20, 2014 at 09:16 PM
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how'd you know that people hate you at the place of work do they talk behind your back then change the subject when you enter?

I can tell you that don't quit your job until you have another one to go to because its so hard to get a job without another one.

you still can do it I believe in you!

Never give up on your on your dreams for you can do it in order it just needs a try.

well you must of succeeded in college to get where you are so I don't think BPD ruined it all, because probably in high school, & elementary school succeeded there.

I started my own rumors at the last job I had I wanted to see if it came back the way I said it. Maybe because you are new and young they see the pecking order and its like old school like that and you want to be friends with queen of the pecking order. They usually don't lift a thing because all the others will do it for them. Maybe it is this or not but this is what I found at my last job.

anyways I hope this helps if I am not then its just coming out of rear end.

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Default May 21, 2014 at 07:22 AM
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It isn't my BPD that causes people to hate me. It is just me that they do not like.
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