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TheCodependent1
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Default Feb 26, 2016 at 04:49 PM
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Once you split someone 'black', a family member, significant other, or otherwise, do you ever split them 'white' again. I've been split black by my girlfriend of one year, perhaps ex-girlfriend, no contact for two weeks because I said we both needed therapy. She left the relationship a few days before our first anniversary.

I'm resigned to the fact I won't hear from her again, I certainly don't want to make matters worse, so I am respecting the no contact. From your own experience, what are the chances I hear from her again, or am split 'white'?

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Default Feb 28, 2016 at 11:47 AM
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I don't split as extremely as some do. That said, disrespect and invalidation will do it.

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