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Mar 10, 2017, 08:20 PM
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I've been married for almost 17 years now and I have forgotten why I married him in the first place. After 6 months of going to see a therapist, I realized that my spouse does not make sense to me. He is a sexual predator who pursues underaged girls online, but we don't have sex. He is a man, concerned with fashion and interior design. I don't know who/what he is.
My previous relationship was with a guy who was a 'good ole boy'. Completely opposite my spouse. I don't know how to say it, but I want to be owned, possessed and claimed by man. I've gone and committed, and had 2 children with, someone I don't think I even know. Wtf am I supposed to do now? Today I was thinking about driving into a tree on the way home. Quick, and noone else would get hurt. I am afraid to be alone in the world, but I can't handle the relationship.... I guess this is a 'be careful what you wish for' situation. Sorry for rambling... Hard to make sense when speaking out of a tornado of emotions. |
 RainyDay107
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Mar 10, 2017, 08:27 PM
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Sounds complicated Blue.
Aside from the car/tree thing, what options have you considered, and how do you think those scenarios would play out? It can be good to write them down, doesn't have to be here, but we would go down the road with you if you would have us. |
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Mar 11, 2017, 10:42 AM
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I've tried couple's counseling, and with his anger management issues ... He screamed at the therapist for "taking my side" and left the session. This happened so many time that I now refuse to go to any therapy with him.
I went to see a therapist to try to get in touch with my emotions, because I'm numb. We had about 4 EMDR sessions and then hit a block. So now things are on pause -- again. |
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Mar 11, 2017, 11:47 AM
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Have you considered ending your relationship with him?
That is not advice, just a question. |
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Mar 11, 2017, 03:09 PM
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Yes. Several times. But it seems that we usually make up, or divorce seems like too much of a hassle, too hard on the kids, etc. Also there's my attachment issues and fear of being alone. It seems that something huge has to happen before I will do anything.
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Mar 11, 2017, 05:59 PM
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in your original post do you see descriptions of his behaviours that you consider s 'big deal'?
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This is an old thread. You probably should not post your reply to it, as the original poster is unlikely to see it.|
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