[Necromurmur]

I have had a good friend for over a year now and I see him a couple of times every week and message consistently through the day everyday, two days ago he dropped off the map, no message to say why and no previous signs that anything was different. We really enjoyed each others company and were on the same wavelength and had lots In common. I had been the last one to message two days ago and have heard nothing back, I'm worried that something may have happened to him or that I've just been ghosted which would be really hurtful as we always were honest with each other. My past two nights sleep have been awful, I can't get it out of my head and I'm starting to feel like why do I even try forming relationships with people when inevitably they'll leave in some way eventually, I know right now I'm feeling the worst of it and I'll get over it. Has anyone any helpful advice or something similar happen?

[Fuzzybear]

I can relate to abandonment issues for sure. I think the worst thing you can do is to blame yourself if you've done nothing wrong.

Please keep us updated. I want to know what happens, it will help many here I think

[Necromurmur]

I will keep you updated, I really hope he does reply even if it is just a goodbye, I'd rather have closure and know that he's okay than this worry and over thinking in my head. My bpd has calmed down a lot over the years but I get flare ups when things like this happen.