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Oct 02, 2017, 09:43 AM
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i've been fondling a huge decision to cut my hair in some way
i haven't really had a hair cut since i was 13 years old and have had long hair ever since, being a male its something that i had to really just dedicate myself to people would say things and make looks which i still get to this day when i was in the hospital people kept saying how beautiful my hair was and how women would kill to have it so i really don't know what to do but i am on the fence about it... i dont know why i am thinking about it so much, maybe thinking if i wack off some of it then things will change... or something... maybe its a ego or self confidence thing... i dont want to cut it all off and i still want it to be long i've just been fondling the idea of shaving the sides off so that i can still keep part of it long and not have to fight with so much of it... im still not really in a good place to make decisions though so maybe i shouldn't do anything like this?
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Oct 02, 2017, 09:54 AM
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If your not in a good place to make descisions them wait a little longer . I don't want you to regret it. Shaving the sides sounds like a good look , but is there any harm in waiting till you feel better ?
What else could give you confidence right now other than your hair ? |
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#3
Oct 02, 2017, 11:01 AM
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Only you can answer your questions... (I know I'm overstating the obvious so please forgive me.)
Cutting your hair may be a grand adventure, shaving off the side might be fun. I'm female, but I always end up with long hair because maintaining short hair is sometimes too much trouble. Keeping a short hair cut requires commitment and frequent visits to a salon. The one great thing about a haircut is it's not permanent like a tattoo or piercings. You can let it grow back. 
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Oct 02, 2017, 04:10 PM
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its something i have been thinking about for a long time over the year sort of passively..
just something that bothers me is a bit that i dont know if its just hair or if there is something more to it, more occult i don't get to talk about my beliefs because they are so... different... but on the other side maybe cutting this stuff will release some pent up mess that causing me pain too i know it sounds weird and may or may not be true... but my studies bring a lot of strange questions up... after this last "mental break" i've just been hearing the call back to the occult and need to figure my life out... im definitely waiting... just wish i had a girlfriend to make the decision easier for me, haha
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Oct 03, 2017, 01:41 PM
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the only religion i have so far been a part of that requires a dress code about hair being this short or that long is the Jehovah witness. and then their (Jehovah witness) code when I attended their church was boys/men no longer than the nap of the neck and off the ears and girls no specified length as long as it was neat and tidy at all times. but the occult my friend and her family all have various lengths of hair (she and one daughter has short hair, husband short mans hair cut, one adult son who is in a band has longer hair and one son who sells insurance has short hair and the 5 yr old by has short little boys hair cut, his twin has a longer hair cut.) my suggestion is just go with what ever makes you comfortable. |
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#6
Oct 04, 2017, 02:21 PM
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thanks,
that is part of the reason i am considering it... to be more comfortable, because it is such work to maintain a longer hair style... even though all i do is pull it back and put many hair bands in it and brush it once every 2-3 days or so... i just dont want to cut it and lose part of my empathy or extrasensory type abilities if that makes any sense... then again if i do cut it and it numbs me to some of the pain and suffering that would be a good thing maybe.. its just that i haven't had it cut in a long time and don't know what to expect from it i have read that people experienced no change in their abilities... but they didn't really elaborate on what they were practicing 
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#7
Oct 06, 2017, 06:00 AM
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Listen to Crosby Stills Nash and Young on utube..."I almost cut my hair" before you decide.
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