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Grand Magnate
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Feb 22, 2019 at 05:10 PM
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How much pain has been caused for lacking of knowledge, lack of sensitivity or selfishness, mentioning only the less severe errors. Better not think of physical or sexual abuse. There are major words.
Make a mix with on one side, a sensitive temperament little kid and a caretaker or caretakers who aren’t ready to give the kid his/her own place and you will have a soul roaming all life long. I’m happy I won’t have kids bc I seriously doubt I would have done things very different. I’m happy now parents know more about how to take care of their kinds much better than in the past. __________________ Social Anxiety and Depression. Cluster C traits. Trying to improve my English. My apologies for errors and mistakes in advance. Mankind is complex: Make deserts blossom and lakes die. ( GIL SCOTT-HERSON) |
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Feb 23, 2019 at 08:34 PM
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Feb 24, 2019 at 01:52 AM
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On one hand I'm very confused about how to interpret this On the other hand, if my understanding is correct on how I personally interpret this. My bad side is coming out. There wouldn't be gloves coming off |
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Feb 24, 2019 at 02:50 AM
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I'm going through a current crisis with family right now. Your words didn't at first affect me but now they are. There is a tornado of thoughts going through my head and all of them seem to be half thoughts. Idk why I feel or think this way but my thoughts are too fast too comprehend. I end up going back to the beginning. Its always rage,hatred. I honestly don't know anything else. I will type more when my brain slows down enough for me to understand
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Grand Magnate
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Feb 24, 2019 at 07:39 PM
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Interpret it pretty literally because I’m a very direct person when expressing myself, only maybe my doubts about everything can mislead people.
I’m a pretty sensitive person and I worked with kids, I see how hard some patterns of parenthood have done such a damage for a kid who in the end, only need an adult who cares for him and is ready to listen to him. This is very important. It gives a child the direct message that what you say, what you feel, what you want....matters. This is the strength for a kid, to feel himself loved, built his own identity and self without being scared or wanting to hide it, denied it...to feel secure enough when exploring the outside. I was expressing my sorrow for so many wasted lives. And stressing on the idea that many times, it’s not needed a crime like (sexual, physical abuse) to break a life. Also I was taking into account that most of the times, mistreat and neglect is not on purpose but there it is. __________________ Social Anxiety and Depression. Cluster C traits. Trying to improve my English. My apologies for errors and mistakes in advance. Mankind is complex: Make deserts blossom and lakes die. ( GIL SCOTT-HERSON) |
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Feb 26, 2019 at 12:58 AM
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When it comes to emotional tormenting a child my only wish is to be by the child's side and be the voice he or she doesn't have. I went through this in my childhood. Again, my statements about not wearing gloves stands. I'm sure forum policy prevents me from saying what happens next. Just believe it is not nice
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