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Feb 13, 2018 at 03:36 PM
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Feb 13, 2018 at 05:10 PM
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Congrats lovelife2017 that's great!
tomorrow will be 70 days for me __________________ “All the darkness in the world cannot extinguish the light of a single candle.” -St. Francis of Assisi
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Feb 13, 2018 at 07:44 PM
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Wow! I'm really happy for you.
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Feb 27, 2018 at 02:16 PM
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83 days........
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Feb 27, 2018 at 05:03 PM
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That’s wonderful!
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Mar 02, 2018 at 07:34 AM
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Hey, Bluebird. I'm so proud of you!
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Mar 04, 2018 at 09:09 AM
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6 weeks!
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Mar 05, 2018 at 05:53 AM
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Finally.........3 weeks free.
__________________ When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors. |
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Mar 06, 2018 at 07:35 AM
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Well done Little Jay and MoxieDoxie! 😀
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Mar 17, 2018 at 07:35 PM
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5 days for me
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Mar 18, 2018 at 06:31 PM
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5 weeks!!
__________________ When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors. |
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Mar 21, 2018 at 08:18 AM
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Great job everyone!
I'm at 105 days __________________ “All the darkness in the world cannot extinguish the light of a single candle.” -St. Francis of Assisi
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Mar 21, 2018 at 08:15 PM
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Awesome Blue_Bird!!
What have you found helpful in going so long? |
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Mar 31, 2018 at 05:50 AM
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Thanks  Mindfulness, trying to eat slowly and enjoy everything I do eat. And relaxation exercises. If I can get past that initial urge to run to the fridge and grab something to eat (when I'm just craving stuff and not actually hungry) I can be okay. Also, I let myself have treats in moderation, I think that's important, and try not to talk negatively to myself if I don't eat "perfectly". __________________ “All the darkness in the world cannot extinguish the light of a single candle.” -St. Francis of Assisi
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Mar 31, 2018 at 11:49 AM
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Back to one day. At 60 with an anorexia starting point transitioning into binge/starve, this has to have been about the 50,000th time I have lost control. When you look at the stats and the belief that history repeats itself, I don't have a great deal of hope for the future......
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May 02, 2018 at 04:11 PM
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147 days so far..
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May 06, 2018 at 10:25 AM
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That’s so wonderful Blue_Bird!
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May 22, 2018 at 08:51 AM
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Thank you! it's been like 166/or 167 days so far now
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Jun 14, 2018 at 09:37 AM
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1 day.... it was like 190 days before that
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Jun 14, 2018 at 08:44 PM
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190 days is an awesome accomplishment and it will always be yours! You can start another long run!
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