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Default Feb 05, 2021 at 07:12 AM
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Told someone that if I don't take care of myself, nobody else will.


that's so true

just like to love others you need to love yourself kind of thing
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Default Feb 05, 2021 at 07:55 AM
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that's so true

just like to love others you need to love yourself kind of thing

Yep it was like I can’t take care of this other person right now because I need to take care of me.
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Default Feb 06, 2021 at 04:51 AM
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ate juicy grapes.

I've been eating a lot of juicy grapes lately
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Default Feb 14, 2021 at 12:43 AM
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Told someone that if I don't take care of myself, nobody else will.

If I ever dared to say anything like this, some twenty people would insist this was proof positive I was a narcissist and they'd spend the next few months convincing anyone they could that I was a narcissist and that they need help crippling me so that I don't "harm" others.
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If I ever dared to say anything like this, some twenty people would insist this was proof positive I was a narcissist and they'd spend the next few months convincing anyone they could that I was a narcissist and that they need help crippling me so that I don't "harm" others.

Well if someone wants to call me a narcissist they can. I’ve already been to therapy and worked on my issues.
Nobody’s said that to me this time. Previously I was definitely called one by a person whom many others called a narcissist. It was ugly. The context was the person I was talking to has to take care of somebody else and I said well I have to take care of me so you go ahead and take care of that other person. That also wasn’t a factor before .
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Default Feb 14, 2021 at 11:53 AM
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I helped 2 penguins find love in an interactive alexa valentines story.

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Default Feb 15, 2021 at 01:42 PM
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Well if someone wants to call me a narcissist they can. I’ve already been to therapy and worked on my issues.

In my case my problems are caused by the fact that people act on what they're told. If people merely thought I was a narcissist in the privacy of their homes without it affecting anything else that would be fine; what actually happens is that people gatekeep anything they can control away from me based on what they're told by others. Such lies keep me away from gainful employment and any semblance of a career, not to mention locking me out of all social groups.

Lies ruin lives, and nothing seems to give people a greater thrill than ruining the life of an innocent person.
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In my case my problems are caused by the fact that people act on what they're told. If people merely thought I was a narcissist in the privacy of their homes without it affecting anything else that would be fine; what actually happens is that people gatekeep anything they can control away from me based on what they're told by others. Such lies keep me away from gainful employment and any semblance of a career, not to mention locking me out of all social groups.

Lies ruin lives, and nothing seems to give people a greater thrill than ruining the life of an innocent person.

It affects your employment?
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Default Feb 14, 2021 at 01:01 PM
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I told the truth about how my dad affected me.
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Default Feb 15, 2021 at 08:49 AM
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I drank some fiz

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Looked at old movies on YouTube, that I saw as a girl
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Looked at old movies on YouTube, that I saw as a girl


I love doing that.

especially looking at all the old disney channel videos. I grew up with disney channel..
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Default Sep 25, 2021 at 07:17 PM
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I slept super-late, then stayed in my "jammies" all day.

I LOVED all the older, hand-drawn & animated Disney films. Today would have been a good day to find some of those, drink some fruit punch and eat popcorn.
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Default Sep 26, 2021 at 04:15 AM
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I ate toast with marmite on it.

complete with crust
yummy yummy toast... reminds me of a poem I used to do as a kid: I saw a ghost eating toast halfway up a lamp post lol
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Default Sep 28, 2021 at 05:44 PM
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I whispered secrets to my girl kitty.
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Default Sep 30, 2021 at 10:21 PM
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I took the bulk of the day "off", with no adult responsibilities.
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I took a drink out of my doggy mug
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Cookies...for breakfast!!!!!
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Default Oct 03, 2021 at 02:33 PM
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I listened to sleeping bunnies this afternoon on alexa!
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not sure if I shared it yet, but I found a good song about diaper changing..

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