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Default Feb 14, 2021 at 11:17 AM
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If I ever dared to say anything like this, some twenty people would insist this was proof positive I was a narcissist and they'd spend the next few months convincing anyone they could that I was a narcissist and that they need help crippling me so that I don't "harm" others.

Well if someone wants to call me a narcissist they can. I’ve already been to therapy and worked on my issues.
Nobody’s said that to me this time. Previously I was definitely called one by a person whom many others called a narcissist. It was ugly. The context was the person I was talking to has to take care of somebody else and I said well I have to take care of me so you go ahead and take care of that other person. That also wasn’t a factor before .
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I helped 2 penguins find love in an interactive alexa valentines story.

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Default Feb 14, 2021 at 01:01 PM
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I told the truth about how my dad affected me.
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Default Feb 15, 2021 at 08:49 AM
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I drank some fiz

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Default Feb 15, 2021 at 01:42 PM
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Well if someone wants to call me a narcissist they can. I’ve already been to therapy and worked on my issues.

In my case my problems are caused by the fact that people act on what they're told. If people merely thought I was a narcissist in the privacy of their homes without it affecting anything else that would be fine; what actually happens is that people gatekeep anything they can control away from me based on what they're told by others. Such lies keep me away from gainful employment and any semblance of a career, not to mention locking me out of all social groups.

Lies ruin lives, and nothing seems to give people a greater thrill than ruining the life of an innocent person.
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Default Feb 15, 2021 at 06:28 PM
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In my case my problems are caused by the fact that people act on what they're told. If people merely thought I was a narcissist in the privacy of their homes without it affecting anything else that would be fine; what actually happens is that people gatekeep anything they can control away from me based on what they're told by others. Such lies keep me away from gainful employment and any semblance of a career, not to mention locking me out of all social groups.

Lies ruin lives, and nothing seems to give people a greater thrill than ruining the life of an innocent person.

It affects your employment?
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Default Feb 16, 2021 at 02:03 AM
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Of course it does. At the most basic level, employment is based more on who you know rather than what you know - and who admits to knowing you. The more people lie about you, the less people want to associate with you, because they don't question the lies. They believe what they're told by the first person who tells them that doesn't conflict with what they've already been told. And the liars always speak first.


I have problems getting employed and being paid the average rate for my skill level precisely because of preexisting social networks that I'm not allowed into, because of all the lies.
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Default Feb 17, 2021 at 06:30 AM
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I made drawings on some red sheets of paper
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Default Feb 18, 2021 at 10:48 AM
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I made up a ryme

I'm fat, and round, and wobble up and down.... I'm jelly. lol

getting lots of laughs out of that. I love making up weird songs about virtually anything
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I have another:

all aboard the big red bus, we're going to the zoo

their's a baby girl onboard kooji kooji coo. lol
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Default Feb 19, 2021 at 10:26 AM
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I told myself it was my birthday, even though in reality it wasn't

just so I could dance around the room going it's my birthday
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Default Feb 21, 2021 at 09:12 AM
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I blew bubbles in my drink. woohooo
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ate a mint chocolate bar
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grapes!....
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Default Feb 25, 2021 at 10:30 AM
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nothing today, which is not great.... I'm depressedm other's day is coming up and well, all these comercials for gifts for mummy... what mummy?. should do something like a teddybear's picnic me thinks as a replacement to mother's day
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Default Feb 27, 2021 at 11:04 AM
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had some dr pepper
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I had bacon flavoured potato chips!. yum!
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Default Mar 02, 2021 at 10:05 AM
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posted here for suggestions for new baby dolls.

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Default Mar 04, 2021 at 05:45 AM
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I had dr pepper..
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Default Mar 05, 2021 at 06:21 AM
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last night I had some peppa pig on.

I actually didn't mean to have it on but it was on while I was brouzing the channels

plus: I watched the awards for world book day and got some suggestions of new books to read
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