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Default Apr 06, 2019 at 12:50 PM
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Thought this might be a nicethread, if it doesn't already exist.

I know you were too afraid to speak out then and I am sorry no one spent time to get to know you. I can't undo what has been done but I want to get to know you now and I want you to be happy with how We go forward because you got me here and given the circumstances we did pretty well :-)
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Default Apr 06, 2019 at 04:14 PM
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Dear inner child,
I’m sorry no one spent any time getting to know you..
And that they only “accepted” you at all as a Clone of Themselves
And that their abandonment was complete
I want to try to accept you, “negativity” and all. I’m proud of you.

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Default Apr 06, 2019 at 04:21 PM
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Dear inner child,

I am sorry for ignoring you all these years. I used to spend so much time looking for someone who would make you happy that I never realized only I could do that for you. I promise I won't ever make that mistake again.

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Default Apr 07, 2019 at 04:18 AM
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Dear inner child,

I am sorry you arrived into the world to a mother who wanted a doll. No wonder you cried, no wonder the abuse has now taught us not to cry.

I am sorry that you were brought up as if you were plastercine (play dough). Being pushed and moulded into someone else's shape and not allowed to find out who you really are and want to be. Talents and gifts battered or stolen....

I know I still fall into the old patterns I was taught from time to time. I am sorry if I do that. We can work together and improve.

I want you to know that I accept you. I love you.
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Default Apr 21, 2019 at 12:11 AM
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Dear inner child,

You will be alright, you will understand why people act this way. Just know this...everything will be alright. Keep going and don't stop. You will act out in ways you will not understand and you will need to be forgiven.

This is when you will understand what forgiveness is. This is when you will be able to forgive everyone, even yourself. This is when you will be able to be the true you.

We will all have the bad days...but those too shall pass. Always walk toward the future...don't stop...never give up!
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Default Apr 24, 2019 at 11:29 AM
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Dear inner child,
You deserve to be forgiven for not being perfect, for making mistakes

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Default Apr 26, 2019 at 02:28 PM
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Dear inner child,

Dam the energy and strength it took you to get here. No wonder there is great reluctance to grow up and settle down and be an adult! I hope we can come to some form of agreement because other parts of us need your help.
I am sorry the initial promises of what other parts of me offered you so you would simple function haven't come to fruition. Maybe we can come to a joint agreement about what our future might look like.
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Default Apr 26, 2019 at 02:35 PM
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Dear inner child,

If only I could show you the future where you will live one day. The things you dream of are real.

P.S. Spend more time up in that apple tree in the back yard, enjoying the sunshine and listening to the birds, and practice the piano just a little bit more. [It'll help when you finally get your own rock band in the 1990s. ;-)]
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Default Apr 28, 2019 at 03:44 PM
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I am sorry I called you the inner Bi7c#. I thought all those times you were scared and fought or fled that I was just crazy. I won't abandon you the way others have. I am here and will always be with you.

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Default Nov 25, 2019 at 08:44 PM
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Dear inner child,

I am sorry you arrived into the world to a mother who wanted a doll. No wonder you cried, no wonder the abuse has now taught us not to cry.

I am sorry that you were brought up as if you were plastercine (play dough). Being pushed and moulded into someone else's shape and not allowed to find out who you really are and want to be. Talents and gifts battered or stolen....

I know I still fall into the old patterns I was taught from time to time. I am sorry if I do that. We can work together and improve.

I want you to know that I accept you. I love you.

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Default May 12, 2020 at 05:35 PM
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Dear inner child I'm sorry that you had to go through emotional abuse and physical abuse that later on cause you to suffer from anxiety and depression. We will get through this together. We have the tools to use.
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Default May 22, 2020 at 01:36 AM
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i'm sorry you were so completely alone and abandoned. i'm sorry there was no one to speak to and you lived in fear and silence. i'm sorry there was no one to help you grow up. i'm sorry you were punished for being in pain. i'm sorry for all the abuse you suffered.

i'm sorry you get scared so often. i'm sorry that no one will ever understand.

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Default Oct 24, 2020 at 02:14 PM
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dear inner child.

barbins bitbins (santa) is coming soon. i know you get realy excited about christmas eve, and even though we don't have a mother who wants to spend it with us, we will watch the muppets, we will have a buffet, and we will sing santa songs.... oh yes we will...

like jingle bells or something nice and cheery
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Default Oct 26, 2020 at 02:39 AM
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We will get through this together....

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Default Jan 08, 2021 at 08:45 PM
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I'm sorry you were so completely alone and abandoned and that nobody even hugged you. I love you

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Dear inner child,

I'm sorry you always felt so alone. I'm sorry you constantly felt like you had to "deliver" on appropriate behavior, or risk being shunned. I'm sorry you were being shaped and molded into something you're not. I'm sorry it's so hard and scary and lonely to fight free of that mold now.

I'm sorry there was never a single person who accepted and loved you for you. I'm sorry for the damage it's done to you as an adult. How compliant and scared it has made you.

Again: I'm just so deeply sorry about how alone and to the core rejected you've felt.
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Default Feb 10, 2021 at 04:56 PM
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I was always invisible and non existent. I am sorry I didn't know you existed my inner child. I am sorry for what you went through.I will strive hard to bring you into existence and I will take care of you.I promise.
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Default Feb 10, 2021 at 08:02 PM
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I know you're exhausted and you just want to rest. I'm doing my best to try to take care of you.
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Default Feb 25, 2021 at 10:32 AM
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dear inner child, I know mother's day's coming up and we don't have a mother, I came up with doing a teddybear's picnic in sted... do you like that idea?. you can choose what teddybears we have at the picnic
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Default Mar 01, 2021 at 10:24 AM
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dear inner child:

I posted for doll suggestions, so who knows, you might actually have a cool birthday present. I know you want amy, but she's not around anymore.. but I'm going to get one just as good I promise
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