I just got told off again

Nov 26, 2018 at 11:47 AM

okay thanks everyone for responding, sorry I fretted so much about it

Nov 26, 2018 at 01:53 PM

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Originally Posted by downandlonely

Whisper, is this a pattern for you that when you get an error message, you assume you did something wrong and are therefore a bad person? If so, I think it's something you need to work on. Not everything that goes wrong is your fault (and often it's not even about you).

I think that DBT Skills book I recommended might help you with this.

Just thought, this pattern thing, could it maybe be due to the emotional unstable disorder thing the professionals mentioned in the letters and stuff they writ about me? sorry I just thought of this, I'll shh now

Fuzzybear · Nov 26, 2018 at 03:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Travelinglady

Being in moderation was one suggested possibility. I would think you would be told directly if you were.

Travellinglady is correct

I think I received a similar message once and I’ve never been in moderation. It’s a standard message

Fuzzybear · Nov 26, 2018 at 03:40 PM

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Originally Posted by whispershadow

Just thought, this pattern thing, could it maybe be due to the emotional unstable disorder thing the professionals mentioned in the letters and stuff they writ about me? sorry I just thought of this, I'll shh now

I doubt it.. and please remember that none of us are professionals here.. not that the “professionals” in this forest are of any help

Hugs and love to you whisper

Nov 26, 2018 at 03:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Fuzzybear

I doubt it.. and please remember that none of us are professionals here.. not that the “professionals” in this forest are of any help

Hugs and love to you whisper

I know, I was talking generally

The "professionals" here irl are useless

Buffy01 · Nov 29, 2018 at 06:36 PM

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Originally Posted by whispershadow

By forum software error message thing

I tried to go into a thread I'd posted in and it yelled at me

I don't understand why it says I'm in moderation

This probably won't go through so idk why I'm trying to post it cause I'm panicking now

Wow I never had that happen to me yet.

Buffy01 · Nov 29, 2018 at 06:38 PM

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Originally Posted by downandlonely

That happened to me one time, but it was because I was trying to post in a social group that I'm not a member of. I don't know why it would do that to you if you already posted there.

Thank you for letting me know about that. I tried that myself! I was told that I was not a member to respond to.

Buffy01 · Nov 29, 2018 at 06:40 PM

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Originally Posted by whispershadow

It says I'm in moderation though, I'm fretting

Why's it say that? What did I do?

Perhaps you post something that was triggering or a computer error? Are some ideas.

Buffy01 · Nov 29, 2018 at 06:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Travelinglady

Being in moderation was one suggested possibility. I would think you would be told directly if you were.

That a possibility.

Buffy01 · Nov 29, 2018 at 06:42 PM

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Originally Posted by downandlonely

Whisper, I don't think you did anything wrong. Try to relax.

That great advice!

Buffy01 · Dec 06, 2018 at 10:03 PM

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Originally Posted by whispershadow

This is cause everyone knows I'm a bad member isn't it

I did get told directly I'm in there, forum software just told me

I'm sorry that this has happened to you!

Buffy01 · Dec 06, 2018 at 10:03 PM

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Originally Posted by downandlonely

I think maybe the post was moved to an administrative area. That seems to be the most likely of all the possibilities they mentioned. I don't think it has anything to do with you.

That possible